"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who else is having a great day?

teagan

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There are always a lot of negative threads on here (I've contributed to the negativity myself) but I just wanted to make a thread for those who are actually enjoying life. You know, those of us who can step back and appreciate what we have.

I've been loving life lately. I don't think it could be better. I got broads pouring in my lap and my endeavors are being accomplished without a hitch. Life is great! :cool:

Even without this, life would still be great but it just makes it a little nicer.

Who else feels this way?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Darth

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Yeah, I'm having a great day and a great life in general. I'm accomplishing stuff every day, and what I once thought was an impossible idea for a career seems easy now, because I know now I can do anything I put my mind to.

So yeah. Life is awesome:)
 

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Well I just got up, it's election day, the weather is supposed to be nice, it's a good day. And to top it off, I'm a little sore from working out yesterday, heck yeah.
 

piranha45

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I'm only having a mediocre day :\
 

Magma

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It's a great day!

I crossed off three life goals from my list in a single week last week. :rockon:

1) Travel to Mexico
2) Catch a sal****er fish on my fly rod (needlefish on a chartreuse pattern)
3) Become a member of the thirty pound club (fish, that is)
4) Become a member of the hundred pound club (again, talking about fish)

I guess that's four. I made it my goal to get a hundred pounder after I reached #3 on my list. Went out two days later and hauled in a Yellowfin Tuna the size of my twelve year old nephew.

Yeah, it's a good day to be alive...

Edit: haha! it edited "salt water" b/c I didn't put a space between. This site is ridiculous.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Heart Break Kid

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Delightful. Unless a certain multinational corporation goes bankrupt (not going to happen), I am likely tripling my investment money.
 

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great couple days Sh!tty evening ...b/c of reasons unspoken..
 

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I love life right now. It's all about golf for me and pushing myself.

I'm working harder than ever to become a professional long driver and tour pro.

Push myself in the gym for 5 hours. Run 10 miles. Hit 500 balls. Work on short game 7 hours. Pick up chicks for an hour. Work on a business plan to own my own driving range after I graduate... Sleep 4 hours.

Everyday.

:rockon:
 

Ken785

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mpimpin said:
great couple days Sh!tty evening ...b/c of reasons unspoken..
Hey mr. moderator...talking and no implying politics here...thread closed. :rolleyes:
 

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Life is very good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alle_Gory

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Today is great.

Its easy to take for granted what you already have.
 

mpimpin

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Ken785 said:
Hey mr. moderator...talking and no implying politics here...thread closed. :rolleyes:

I found out i was missing a dollar ...that's all...:rolleyes:
 

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I'm actually feeling good today. It started on a rough edge, but I read the Who Are You thread in general discussions and it opened my eyes a bit. Then, I went to the library and took out the book The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, started reading that. All I can say is that I feel high on myself. Who needs drugs when you can produce the same disconnection from your mind on your own? :D
 

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AlexTheGreat said:
I'm actually feeling good today. It started on a rough edge, but I read the Who Are You thread in general discussions and it opened my eyes a bit. Then, I went to the library and took out the book The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, started reading that.
I'm feeling pretty good too - A whole week off of school. Just taking it easy and relaxing a bit, it's all good man!

AlexTheGreat said:
All I can say is that I feel high on myself. Who needs drugs when you can produce the same disconnection from your mind on your own? :D
Word yo!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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teagan

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It's good to hear you guys are are happy in life. I think after these last couple of days Ill be on a permanent high...the best part of which is that I found $200 in my draw. How the hell I forgot about $200 Ill never know but Im elated to find it hahaha
 
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