"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who else is a car salesman here?

Target_100

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I used to be quite shy, but then I got into telemarketing at 17-18 and then moved on to car sales. I now work with BMW and I gotta say I get lots of social skill training talking to the customers.

I managed to fukk a HB8,5 customer too after only working with BMW for two weeks. Pretty girls seem to really like the 1-series.

Now without risking getting sacked, I'd like to replicate the experience with some of the other HBCustomers.

So who else here is a car salesman, and what are you'r experiences on using the job to get girls?

:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuan11

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5 series are the best. Lets do the poll:

Mercedes or BMW?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lol you sure she wasn't just trying to get into your pants so she can drive off in that brand spanking new bimmer?

I sold cars, got tired of it, long nights, being used till no end...how long have you been selling?
 

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DJ1234: I've worked with BMW for 6 months now. Did you have any "extra curricular" success with any customers, and what brand did you work for?
 

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Not really, I worked for Nissan in the internet sales department, and we had a strict "Ethics Policy," mostly about bribbing and illegal transactions, didn't mean we couldn't go out to dinner with the customer but I didn't work long enough to have any success with customers, but im sure you'll get customers at BMW :whistle: :yes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yes, its your boss :nono: hehe ;)

I'd like to work for BMW, any vacancies going?
 
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I don't work in car sales...but I tell everyone I know...if you're serious about being sucessful in life (such as by owning your own business or becoming a power player in corporate life)...you should consider a sales job where you have a chance to sell a quality product. IMHO, sales is the best career for driven, goal-oriented people (at the very least, as a springboard).

Congrats on your job with BMW...thats a truly remarkable company and I cannot wait for their 1-series to debut in the USA.
 

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The 1-series 2-door coupe is a stunner too. Very much unlike the standard 2-door 1-series. Its great if you live in an area with tight parking spaces but want a nice looking beemer.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crazy Asian

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hey how does one get a job in sales.
like a really good position like CEO or owning ur own business?

like i know that for a doctor u need to go to lots of school and training, but how do you land a job in sales?
 
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