"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who else is a car salesman here?

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I used to be quite shy, but then I got into telemarketing at 17-18 and then moved on to car sales. I now work with BMW and I gotta say I get lots of social skill training talking to the customers.

I managed to fukk a HB8,5 customer too after only working with BMW for two weeks. Pretty girls seem to really like the 1-series.

Now without risking getting sacked, I'd like to replicate the experience with some of the other HBCustomers.

So who else here is a car salesman, and what are you'r experiences on using the job to get girls?

:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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5 series are the best. Lets do the poll:

Mercedes or BMW?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lol you sure she wasn't just trying to get into your pants so she can drive off in that brand spanking new bimmer?

I sold cars, got tired of it, long nights, being used till no end...how long have you been selling?
 
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DJ1234: I've worked with BMW for 6 months now. Did you have any "extra curricular" success with any customers, and what brand did you work for?
 
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Not really, I worked for Nissan in the internet sales department, and we had a strict "Ethics Policy," mostly about bribbing and illegal transactions, didn't mean we couldn't go out to dinner with the customer but I didn't work long enough to have any success with customers, but im sure you'll get customers at BMW :whistle: :yes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, its your boss :nono: hehe ;)

I'd like to work for BMW, any vacancies going?
 
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I don't work in car sales...but I tell everyone I know...if you're serious about being sucessful in life (such as by owning your own business or becoming a power player in corporate life)...you should consider a sales job where you have a chance to sell a quality product. IMHO, sales is the best career for driven, goal-oriented people (at the very least, as a springboard).

Congrats on your job with BMW...thats a truly remarkable company and I cannot wait for their 1-series to debut in the USA.
 
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The 1-series 2-door coupe is a stunner too. Very much unlike the standard 2-door 1-series. Its great if you live in an area with tight parking spaces but want a nice looking beemer.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hey how does one get a job in sales.
like a really good position like CEO or owning ur own business?

like i know that for a doctor u need to go to lots of school and training, but how do you land a job in sales?
 
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