"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who else is a car salesman here?

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I used to be quite shy, but then I got into telemarketing at 17-18 and then moved on to car sales. I now work with BMW and I gotta say I get lots of social skill training talking to the customers.

I managed to fukk a HB8,5 customer too after only working with BMW for two weeks. Pretty girls seem to really like the 1-series.

Now without risking getting sacked, I'd like to replicate the experience with some of the other HBCustomers.

So who else here is a car salesman, and what are you'r experiences on using the job to get girls?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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5 series are the best. Lets do the poll:

Mercedes or BMW?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lol you sure she wasn't just trying to get into your pants so she can drive off in that brand spanking new bimmer?

I sold cars, got tired of it, long nights, being used till no end...how long have you been selling?
 
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DJ1234: I've worked with BMW for 6 months now. Did you have any "extra curricular" success with any customers, and what brand did you work for?
 
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Not really, I worked for Nissan in the internet sales department, and we had a strict "Ethics Policy," mostly about bribbing and illegal transactions, didn't mean we couldn't go out to dinner with the customer but I didn't work long enough to have any success with customers, but im sure you'll get customers at BMW :whistle: :yes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes, its your boss :nono: hehe ;)

I'd like to work for BMW, any vacancies going?
 
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I don't work in car sales...but I tell everyone I know...if you're serious about being sucessful in life (such as by owning your own business or becoming a power player in corporate life)...you should consider a sales job where you have a chance to sell a quality product. IMHO, sales is the best career for driven, goal-oriented people (at the very least, as a springboard).

Congrats on your job with BMW...thats a truly remarkable company and I cannot wait for their 1-series to debut in the USA.
 
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The 1-series 2-door coupe is a stunner too. Very much unlike the standard 2-door 1-series. Its great if you live in an area with tight parking spaces but want a nice looking beemer.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hey how does one get a job in sales.
like a really good position like CEO or owning ur own business?

like i know that for a doctor u need to go to lots of school and training, but how do you land a job in sales?
 
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