DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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All menprefer hot chicks but most men have to either settle for ugly chicks or go without..
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I like your four points. However, I think there is one more to add. Think of this scenario.ArtVandelay said:I think the OP was referring to women that would be below average or ugly to the majority, i.e. most of the girls you see on myspace with body angle pics or butt ugly faces. And the answer is, some guys settle. I've seen plenty of decent to really good looking guys with below average girls (4 or below to most guys). They either 1.)Go for personality. 2.)Don't think of themselves as good looking and don't think they can do better. 3.)Have had HBs and want a low-maintenance girl without the drama who will look up to them and be grateful that they have a hot bf. And obviously 4.)Guys that are ugly/average themselves that either settle or have bad taste.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My theory is, you shouldn't settle for anything 2 points lower than the highest girl you can get.Maxtro said:I did.
A couple of years ago I was very desperate and I dated a girl that I consider to be way below my standards. She was a fat chick with a cute face, if she was ugly I could never even talk to her.
The closest I ever got to having sex with her was the both of us on her bed I was wearing boxers and she was only wearing boyshorts. Not once did I try to take her shorts off or feel her down there. The thought of seeing her fat ass disgusted me. I could have fucked if I wanted to. Even though I was horny I just didn't want to have sex with her.
We broke up shortly after and I decided to never settle for a girl that was below my standards again.
stuka1939 said:My theory is, you shouldn't settle for anything 2 points lower than the highest girl you can get.
I don't think I can get nor would I feel secure with a HB 9/10 and I think the HB8 is the best I can do (based on my own physical appearance)
THerfore, the lowest I would go is a HB6.
Probably more than you.positivity_injection said:you are a geek who plays with numbers too much
how many girls have you dated in your life?