“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Who dates the average and below-average looking chicks?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Leporello

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I'll admit that a couple of times I've slept with chicks I didn't find particularly attractive.

Why? First of all, they were clearly going after me and it was easy. Plus i was a long way from home and I knew the story wouldn't get back.

Philip Roth once said that ugly girls are the best because they'll do whatever you want them to. He's right. While I'd never parade these chicks around town they were perfect 'practice girls' for me to try out new sexual techniques, build up my stamina etc. They were so grateful to be fvcked that I got whatever kind of sex i wanted whenever I wanted it. One girl in particular - OK body, well below-average face - used to give me three BJs a day, and swallow too. Not bad if you don't look down.
 

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ArtVandelay said:
I think the OP was referring to women that would be below average or ugly to the majority, i.e. most of the girls you see on myspace with body angle pics or butt ugly faces. And the answer is, some guys settle. I've seen plenty of decent to really good looking guys with below average girls (4 or below to most guys). They either 1.)Go for personality. 2.)Don't think of themselves as good looking and don't think they can do better. 3.)Have had HBs and want a low-maintenance girl without the drama who will look up to them and be grateful that they have a hot bf. And obviously 4.)Guys that are ugly/average themselves that either settle or have bad taste.
I like your four points. However, I think there is one more to add. Think of this scenario.

Man meets an attractive looking 25 year old and they get married. Fast Forward to 7 years later. THe man is still rather good-looking, but the woman has gained 70 lbs after popping out two kids and hasn't helped herself to lose the weight.

This is the only explanation I can think of when I see couples in their 30's where the guy is thin and decent looking and the woman is fat. She probably did not look like that when they met.

I guess after awhile, the personality becomes more important.

I also noticed something wierd when observing couples that check into my hotel.

You see a decent amount of good-looking guys with girls uglier than them, but the "average at best" guys have cute girlfriends. It is the wierdest thing....

Being a tall, decent looking guy myself...I can't go out with anything less than a 6...especially since I see so many guys I am better looking than with cute girls.
 

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I did.

A couple of years ago I was very desperate and I dated a girl that I consider to be way below my standards. She was a fat chick with a cute face, if she was ugly I could never even talk to her.

The closest I ever got to having sex with her was the both of us on her bed I was wearing boxers and she was only wearing boyshorts. Not once did I try to take her shorts off or feel her down there. The thought of seeing her fat ass disgusted me. I could have fucked if I wanted to. Even though I was horny I just didn't want to have sex with her.

We broke up shortly after and I decided to never settle for a girl that was below my standards again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maxtro said:
I did.

A couple of years ago I was very desperate and I dated a girl that I consider to be way below my standards. She was a fat chick with a cute face, if she was ugly I could never even talk to her.

The closest I ever got to having sex with her was the both of us on her bed I was wearing boxers and she was only wearing boyshorts. Not once did I try to take her shorts off or feel her down there. The thought of seeing her fat ass disgusted me. I could have fucked if I wanted to. Even though I was horny I just didn't want to have sex with her.

We broke up shortly after and I decided to never settle for a girl that was below my standards again.
My theory is, you shouldn't settle for anything 2 points lower than the highest girl you can get.

I don't think I can get nor would I feel secure with a HB 9/10 and I think the HB8 is the best I can do (based on my own physical appearance)

THerfore, the lowest I would go is a HB6.
 
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stuka1939 said:
My theory is, you shouldn't settle for anything 2 points lower than the highest girl you can get.

I don't think I can get nor would I feel secure with a HB 9/10 and I think the HB8 is the best I can do (based on my own physical appearance)

THerfore, the lowest I would go is a HB6.

you are a geek who plays with numbers too much

how many girls have you dated in your life?
 

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I get drunk and try to find vaginas that arent tainted. However, dating is reserved for the hot girls.
 
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