DonGorgon
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All menprefer hot chicks but most men have to either settle for ugly chicks or go without..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who dates the average and below-average looking chicks?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
positivity_injection
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dude you are a FOOL
you have 270 posts, and you have started 72 threads all about this same looks bs
SEVENTY TWO
you have 270 posts, and you have started 72 threads all about this same looks bs
SEVENTY TWO
I'll admit that a couple of times I've slept with chicks I didn't find particularly attractive.
Why? First of all, they were clearly going after me and it was easy. Plus i was a long way from home and I knew the story wouldn't get back.
Philip Roth once said that ugly girls are the best because they'll do whatever you want them to. He's right. While I'd never parade these chicks around town they were perfect 'practice girls' for me to try out new sexual techniques, build up my stamina etc. They were so grateful to be fvcked that I got whatever kind of sex i wanted whenever I wanted it. One girl in particular - OK body, well below-average face - used to give me three BJs a day, and swallow too. Not bad if you don't look down.
Why? First of all, they were clearly going after me and it was easy. Plus i was a long way from home and I knew the story wouldn't get back.
Philip Roth once said that ugly girls are the best because they'll do whatever you want them to. He's right. While I'd never parade these chicks around town they were perfect 'practice girls' for me to try out new sexual techniques, build up my stamina etc. They were so grateful to be fvcked that I got whatever kind of sex i wanted whenever I wanted it. One girl in particular - OK body, well below-average face - used to give me three BJs a day, and swallow too. Not bad if you don't look down.
stuka1939
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I like your four points. However, I think there is one more to add. Think of this scenario.ArtVandelay said:I think the OP was referring to women that would be below average or ugly to the majority, i.e. most of the girls you see on myspace with body angle pics or butt ugly faces. And the answer is, some guys settle. I've seen plenty of decent to really good looking guys with below average girls (4 or below to most guys). They either 1.)Go for personality. 2.)Don't think of themselves as good looking and don't think they can do better. 3.)Have had HBs and want a low-maintenance girl without the drama who will look up to them and be grateful that they have a hot bf. And obviously 4.)Guys that are ugly/average themselves that either settle or have bad taste.
Man meets an attractive looking 25 year old and they get married. Fast Forward to 7 years later. THe man is still rather good-looking, but the woman has gained 70 lbs after popping out two kids and hasn't helped herself to lose the weight.
This is the only explanation I can think of when I see couples in their 30's where the guy is thin and decent looking and the woman is fat. She probably did not look like that when they met.
I guess after awhile, the personality becomes more important.
I also noticed something wierd when observing couples that check into my hotel.
You see a decent amount of good-looking guys with girls uglier than them, but the "average at best" guys have cute girlfriends. It is the wierdest thing....
Being a tall, decent looking guy myself...I can't go out with anything less than a 6...especially since I see so many guys I am better looking than with cute girls.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I did.
A couple of years ago I was very desperate and I dated a girl that I consider to be way below my standards. She was a fat chick with a cute face, if she was ugly I could never even talk to her.
The closest I ever got to having sex with her was the both of us on her bed I was wearing boxers and she was only wearing boyshorts. Not once did I try to take her shorts off or feel her down there. The thought of seeing her fat ass disgusted me. I could have fucked if I wanted to. Even though I was horny I just didn't want to have sex with her.
We broke up shortly after and I decided to never settle for a girl that was below my standards again.
A couple of years ago I was very desperate and I dated a girl that I consider to be way below my standards. She was a fat chick with a cute face, if she was ugly I could never even talk to her.
The closest I ever got to having sex with her was the both of us on her bed I was wearing boxers and she was only wearing boyshorts. Not once did I try to take her shorts off or feel her down there. The thought of seeing her fat ass disgusted me. I could have fucked if I wanted to. Even though I was horny I just didn't want to have sex with her.
We broke up shortly after and I decided to never settle for a girl that was below my standards again.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
stuka1939
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My theory is, you shouldn't settle for anything 2 points lower than the highest girl you can get.Maxtro said:I did.
A couple of years ago I was very desperate and I dated a girl that I consider to be way below my standards. She was a fat chick with a cute face, if she was ugly I could never even talk to her.
The closest I ever got to having sex with her was the both of us on her bed I was wearing boxers and she was only wearing boyshorts. Not once did I try to take her shorts off or feel her down there. The thought of seeing her fat ass disgusted me. I could have fucked if I wanted to. Even though I was horny I just didn't want to have sex with her.
We broke up shortly after and I decided to never settle for a girl that was below my standards again.
I don't think I can get nor would I feel secure with a HB 9/10 and I think the HB8 is the best I can do (based on my own physical appearance)
THerfore, the lowest I would go is a HB6.
positivity_injection
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stuka1939 said:My theory is, you shouldn't settle for anything 2 points lower than the highest girl you can get.
I don't think I can get nor would I feel secure with a HB 9/10 and I think the HB8 is the best I can do (based on my own physical appearance)
THerfore, the lowest I would go is a HB6.
you are a geek who plays with numbers too much
how many girls have you dated in your life?
stuka1939
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Probably more than you.positivity_injection said:you are a geek who plays with numbers too much
how many girls have you dated in your life?
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I get drunk and try to find vaginas that arent tainted. However, dating is reserved for the hot girls.