"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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who are you ?

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met a women on boat had lot of fun dancing/kissing
exchanged numbers ,she has my number saved
texted after week and i get response

Who are you ?

is this Siht test ?
how do you respond,dont want to qualify myself
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sounds like she deleted your number too me... no tests involved

Just tell her who you are and go from there
 
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have you ever responded im xyz and then you got no response ?
she clearly told she was on boat for sxual networking
 
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no biggie, it's already passed now so who cares, but when I send the first text, it is usually along the lines of:

"Hey monkey nuts (or whatever nickname or funny thing I mentioned to her when I met her), was fun at XXXXXXX. When r u free to go eat some banana's / hunt some buffalo / do some grecko roman wrestling / (in general do something completely ridiculous)?

Lemme know - Yuppaz"

I'll text that the next day after meeting so they can save my number and know they won't be bored to tears by me. Then if I call / text later to set the date, they know it's me.

Think that she just doesn't know who you are. Not a test at all. Say something like "Loved the tonsil hockey on the boat, when r u free to do it on dry land...lol - truthistruth"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just re-read your post, respond with "It's your friend from the boat, we're going to mutiny and take the boat to the bahama's...need to meet up at X at X time to plan our attack"
 
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