"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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who are you ?

truthistruth

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met a women on boat had lot of fun dancing/kissing
exchanged numbers ,she has my number saved
texted after week and i get response

Who are you ?

is this Siht test ?
how do you respond,dont want to qualify myself
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ganondorf!

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sounds like she deleted your number too me... no tests involved

Just tell her who you are and go from there
 

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have you ever responded im xyz and then you got no response ?
she clearly told she was on boat for sxual networking
 

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no biggie, it's already passed now so who cares, but when I send the first text, it is usually along the lines of:

"Hey monkey nuts (or whatever nickname or funny thing I mentioned to her when I met her), was fun at XXXXXXX. When r u free to go eat some banana's / hunt some buffalo / do some grecko roman wrestling / (in general do something completely ridiculous)?

Lemme know - Yuppaz"

I'll text that the next day after meeting so they can save my number and know they won't be bored to tears by me. Then if I call / text later to set the date, they know it's me.

Think that she just doesn't know who you are. Not a test at all. Say something like "Loved the tonsil hockey on the boat, when r u free to do it on dry land...lol - truthistruth"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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just re-read your post, respond with "It's your friend from the boat, we're going to mutiny and take the boat to the bahama's...need to meet up at X at X time to plan our attack"
 
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