"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who are you kidding?

DrBeard

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I've noticed on lots of posts here all you guys claim you're really good looking and know everything about women and about being a Don Juan. So why the hell are you spending so much time on the net, posting in this board?

Either you're kidding yourselves about how good looking you are or you aren't good at charming women.

Seems strange to me that so many amazing looking guys need to crowd in one place and that place just so happens to be a board which gives dating/women tips to men. Hmmm...

My excuse for being here: I'm ugly and I'm weird. :) What's yours?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WhAcKeD!

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My excuse? Well my excuse is that a past relationship failure got me so desperate to look for an internet site about attracting women so I could make her realize what she has lost, and yes, I am rediculously good looking (Zoolander) lol.
 
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To help ugly and weird guys!! :)
 

tristan22

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I'm good looking and i suck at picking up women, that's why i'm here!

...can someone post my photos for some people to realize, some good looking guys have just as much trouble as everyone else.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Regardless of how you look, if you feel like a worthless piece of crap, that's all that matters.
 

Omega

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To polish my game.

I use to be up the friends ladder all the time (yes I am attractive), because of my personality. I was hiding myself thinking the AFC way was the way to get girls, since I saw it happening all around me (school, etc). Though, after finding this I knew that my intentions were right all along.
 

tactic

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
To polish my game.

I use to be up the friends ladder all the time (yes I am attractive), because of my personality. I was hiding myself thinking the AFC way was the way to get girls, since I saw it happening all around me (school, etc). Though, after finding this I knew that my intentions were right all along.
Haha so agreed there.
 

Austin Allegro

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Because being a DJ is about constant improvement. You can be very good looking and have great game but still need 'continuing professional development'. Does Tiger Woods stop practicing his golf strokes because he's the best in the world - no.
 
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