"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who are you getting your game from?

S. Pryor

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I'm not talking about your family or friends. I'm talking about the guys in the "community". Whether you listen to Ross Jeffries or get some overcomplicated cool nerd **** from Mystery and wear hats made out of dental floss, who are you listening to?

Me personally I read and listen to a little bit of everyone's stuff. Well maybe not EVERYONE but I do keep it to three main guys mostly although The Book Of Pook is a real GEM! Alan Roger Currie is worth listening to as well. But I like what these three guys have to say the most. They don't make up stories or dress up like Big Bird to get attraction. They're guys that are straight to the point.

Tariq Nasheed:
http://www.theurbanrenaissanceman.com/tariq/
David Wygant:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4OOyRXB1Dk8
http://www.youtube.com/user/DavidWygant#p/u/3/7x-ahi9Oob8
David X:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBnDUMq4jOU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhQr3fz4gFc

Bonus Alan Roger Currie:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gKBlh4GzI4U

Help out your fellow sosuavers and let us know the real ****. I know it's the norm here for a thread to get a thousand views with only two replies but do the board a favor man. I'm helping you so help the rest of us dude! Soak up the game and bask in it!
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damn how did I forget ROISSY of all people! Google Roissy for those that don't know. And Roosh V! Roosh has some good stuff as well. Not very familiar with Jophil and KontrollerX. Are they posters? What's BPD?
 

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I thought BPD might have been some PUA lingo I've never heard of but I can honestly say I wasn't aware of Borderline Personality Disorder. There's a book out called How To Avoid Dating Damaged Women by Sandra L. Brown M.A. Very good book ranging from daddy issues, neediness and more. It also talks about why guys attract these crazy ass women.
 

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The single largest influence to me was a thread on the bodybuilding.com forums called 'guide to getting chicks' written by saucehead. He distilled it down and backed up with experience. After that, I picked up a few things from "the game" by Neil Strauss.
 

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At this point. Myself. I do read some brush up material.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Once again I ask ladies and gentlemen WHERE ARE YOU GETTING YOUR GAME FROM?
 

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I honestly did not have much success until I dropped the PUA materials and started being real. Experience really is the best teacher.

When I used pickup "techniques," at BEST I entertained the girl, i.e. was a dancing monkey. At worst, I creeped them out or offended them. I also visited a lot of PU forums and eventually dropped them all and went to SS.

As for SS, I've learned a lot from the following posters*:

JoPhil
Igetit
f283000
Warrior74

*This is not an exhaustive list. There are many others.

The only one outside of SS that I would recommend would be RooshV.
 
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