"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who are you getting your game from?

S. Pryor

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I'm not talking about your family or friends. I'm talking about the guys in the "community". Whether you listen to Ross Jeffries or get some overcomplicated cool nerd **** from Mystery and wear hats made out of dental floss, who are you listening to?

Me personally I read and listen to a little bit of everyone's stuff. Well maybe not EVERYONE but I do keep it to three main guys mostly although The Book Of Pook is a real GEM! Alan Roger Currie is worth listening to as well. But I like what these three guys have to say the most. They don't make up stories or dress up like Big Bird to get attraction. They're guys that are straight to the point.

Tariq Nasheed:
http://www.theurbanrenaissanceman.com/tariq/
David Wygant:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4OOyRXB1Dk8
http://www.youtube.com/user/DavidWygant#p/u/3/7x-ahi9Oob8
David X:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBnDUMq4jOU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhQr3fz4gFc

Bonus Alan Roger Currie:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gKBlh4GzI4U

Help out your fellow sosuavers and let us know the real ****. I know it's the norm here for a thread to get a thousand views with only two replies but do the board a favor man. I'm helping you so help the rest of us dude! Soak up the game and bask in it!
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damn how did I forget ROISSY of all people! Google Roissy for those that don't know. And Roosh V! Roosh has some good stuff as well. Not very familiar with Jophil and KontrollerX. Are they posters? What's BPD?
 

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I thought BPD might have been some PUA lingo I've never heard of but I can honestly say I wasn't aware of Borderline Personality Disorder. There's a book out called How To Avoid Dating Damaged Women by Sandra L. Brown M.A. Very good book ranging from daddy issues, neediness and more. It also talks about why guys attract these crazy ass women.
 

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The single largest influence to me was a thread on the bodybuilding.com forums called 'guide to getting chicks' written by saucehead. He distilled it down and backed up with experience. After that, I picked up a few things from "the game" by Neil Strauss.
 

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At this point. Myself. I do read some brush up material.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Once again I ask ladies and gentlemen WHERE ARE YOU GETTING YOUR GAME FROM?
 

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I honestly did not have much success until I dropped the PUA materials and started being real. Experience really is the best teacher.

When I used pickup "techniques," at BEST I entertained the girl, i.e. was a dancing monkey. At worst, I creeped them out or offended them. I also visited a lot of PU forums and eventually dropped them all and went to SS.

As for SS, I've learned a lot from the following posters*:

JoPhil
Igetit
f283000
Warrior74

*This is not an exhaustive list. There are many others.

The only one outside of SS that I would recommend would be RooshV.
 
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