"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who are you getting your game from?

S. Pryor

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I'm not talking about your family or friends. I'm talking about the guys in the "community". Whether you listen to Ross Jeffries or get some overcomplicated cool nerd **** from Mystery and wear hats made out of dental floss, who are you listening to?

Me personally I read and listen to a little bit of everyone's stuff. Well maybe not EVERYONE but I do keep it to three main guys mostly although The Book Of Pook is a real GEM! Alan Roger Currie is worth listening to as well. But I like what these three guys have to say the most. They don't make up stories or dress up like Big Bird to get attraction. They're guys that are straight to the point.

Tariq Nasheed:
http://www.theurbanrenaissanceman.com/tariq/
David Wygant:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4OOyRXB1Dk8
http://www.youtube.com/user/DavidWygant#p/u/3/7x-ahi9Oob8
David X:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBnDUMq4jOU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhQr3fz4gFc

Bonus Alan Roger Currie:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gKBlh4GzI4U

Help out your fellow sosuavers and let us know the real ****. I know it's the norm here for a thread to get a thousand views with only two replies but do the board a favor man. I'm helping you so help the rest of us dude! Soak up the game and bask in it!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damn how did I forget ROISSY of all people! Google Roissy for those that don't know. And Roosh V! Roosh has some good stuff as well. Not very familiar with Jophil and KontrollerX. Are they posters? What's BPD?
 

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I thought BPD might have been some PUA lingo I've never heard of but I can honestly say I wasn't aware of Borderline Personality Disorder. There's a book out called How To Avoid Dating Damaged Women by Sandra L. Brown M.A. Very good book ranging from daddy issues, neediness and more. It also talks about why guys attract these crazy ass women.
 

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The single largest influence to me was a thread on the bodybuilding.com forums called 'guide to getting chicks' written by saucehead. He distilled it down and backed up with experience. After that, I picked up a few things from "the game" by Neil Strauss.
 

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At this point. Myself. I do read some brush up material.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Once again I ask ladies and gentlemen WHERE ARE YOU GETTING YOUR GAME FROM?
 

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I honestly did not have much success until I dropped the PUA materials and started being real. Experience really is the best teacher.

When I used pickup "techniques," at BEST I entertained the girl, i.e. was a dancing monkey. At worst, I creeped them out or offended them. I also visited a lot of PU forums and eventually dropped them all and went to SS.

As for SS, I've learned a lot from the following posters*:

JoPhil
Igetit
f283000
Warrior74

*This is not an exhaustive list. There are many others.

The only one outside of SS that I would recommend would be RooshV.
 
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