"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who are you getting your game from?

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I'm not talking about your family or friends. I'm talking about the guys in the "community". Whether you listen to Ross Jeffries or get some overcomplicated cool nerd **** from Mystery and wear hats made out of dental floss, who are you listening to?

Me personally I read and listen to a little bit of everyone's stuff. Well maybe not EVERYONE but I do keep it to three main guys mostly although The Book Of Pook is a real GEM! Alan Roger Currie is worth listening to as well. But I like what these three guys have to say the most. They don't make up stories or dress up like Big Bird to get attraction. They're guys that are straight to the point.

Tariq Nasheed:
http://www.theurbanrenaissanceman.com/tariq/
David Wygant:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4OOyRXB1Dk8
http://www.youtube.com/user/DavidWygant#p/u/3/7x-ahi9Oob8
David X:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FBnDUMq4jOU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhQr3fz4gFc

Bonus Alan Roger Currie:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gKBlh4GzI4U

Help out your fellow sosuavers and let us know the real ****. I know it's the norm here for a thread to get a thousand views with only two replies but do the board a favor man. I'm helping you so help the rest of us dude! Soak up the game and bask in it!
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damn how did I forget ROISSY of all people! Google Roissy for those that don't know. And Roosh V! Roosh has some good stuff as well. Not very familiar with Jophil and KontrollerX. Are they posters? What's BPD?
 

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I thought BPD might have been some PUA lingo I've never heard of but I can honestly say I wasn't aware of Borderline Personality Disorder. There's a book out called How To Avoid Dating Damaged Women by Sandra L. Brown M.A. Very good book ranging from daddy issues, neediness and more. It also talks about why guys attract these crazy ass women.
 

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The single largest influence to me was a thread on the bodybuilding.com forums called 'guide to getting chicks' written by saucehead. He distilled it down and backed up with experience. After that, I picked up a few things from "the game" by Neil Strauss.
 

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At this point. Myself. I do read some brush up material.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Once again I ask ladies and gentlemen WHERE ARE YOU GETTING YOUR GAME FROM?
 

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I honestly did not have much success until I dropped the PUA materials and started being real. Experience really is the best teacher.

When I used pickup "techniques," at BEST I entertained the girl, i.e. was a dancing monkey. At worst, I creeped them out or offended them. I also visited a lot of PU forums and eventually dropped them all and went to SS.

As for SS, I've learned a lot from the following posters*:

JoPhil
Igetit
f283000
Warrior74

*This is not an exhaustive list. There are many others.

The only one outside of SS that I would recommend would be RooshV.
 
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