RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Truth. How you look, your personal level of fitness, what you put in your body, and what you wear is something you have 100% control over. Focus on what you can control.My stance is - focus on your looks, your physique, and your style.
When you look better, you naturally feel better.
Behavior, is something that has been instilled in you over time... harder to change. But it is much easier to change behavior when you feel better about yourself. Looking good, being fit, and taking care of yourself is certainly NOT going to hurt you.
As far as hot chicks being with visibly sloppy looking dudes.... Well, you have no idea what is going on. Women get with men based on the man's ability to meet her needs... and these needs change over time. Every chick has different needs, you can not look at individual instances and create a generalization. MOST women are going to be attracted to good looking men, who have their sh1t together... but there are exceptions.