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Who are women actually dating and how do they find them?

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My stance is - focus on your looks, your physique, and your style.
When you look better, you naturally feel better.
Truth. How you look, your personal level of fitness, what you put in your body, and what you wear is something you have 100% control over. Focus on what you can control.

Behavior, is something that has been instilled in you over time... harder to change. But it is much easier to change behavior when you feel better about yourself. Looking good, being fit, and taking care of yourself is certainly NOT going to hurt you.

As far as hot chicks being with visibly sloppy looking dudes.... Well, you have no idea what is going on. Women get with men based on the man's ability to meet her needs... and these needs change over time. Every chick has different needs, you can not look at individual instances and create a generalization. MOST women are going to be attracted to good looking men, who have their sh1t together... but there are exceptions.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So what would you guys say hot woman meet most men from?

Social circle/friends/work probably 80% together ,OLD 15% and the 5% rest random? Just my guess
 

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So what would you guys say hot woman meet most men from?

Social circle/friends/work probably 80% together ,OLD 15% and the 5% rest random? Just my guess
Fewer people are forming relationships at work, a trend that has been going on since the 1990s.

My guess is social circle/friends, mainly from high school, college, and graduate school if applicable. It's much more difficult to make friends post college.
 

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Fewer people are forming relationships at work, a trend that has been going on since the 1990s.

My guess is social circle/friends, mainly from high school, college, and graduate school if applicable. It's much more difficult to make friends post college.
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So yeah... the internet as a whole is about 15%, not even half of the most common one, and still less than the next two most common. No wonder really.
 
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So yeah... the internet as a whole is about 15%, not even half of the most common one, and still less than the next two most common. No wonder really.
Out in a social setting is vague. That could mean the woman was cold approached in a bar. That could mean day game. I'd like some clarity on the meaning of "out in a social setting" if applicable.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Out in a social setting is vague. That could mean the woman was cold approached in a bar. That could mean day game. I'd like some clarity on the meaning of "out in a social setting" if applicable.
Dunno mate, that was from googling, think youd have to go to the source if you can find it.
 
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