"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who are the guys f'ing the attention wh0res?

pikachu69

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They say avoid the attention wh0res cos they're nothing but trouble.. but someone's got to be f'ing them.. who??

Seems like just right time right place, opportunistic lay.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PapiChulo

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If we were fu*king them, they would be just the wh*res, not AWs. They get off mostly on attention from many many men, as we all know, yet I have to admit that I am currently being gamed by two AWs while trying to flip the game on them, f*ck them and disappear. The ones with low self-esteem are the easier lays. AWs are people too and are in relationships most of the time.
 

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This site is supposed to make you a better man! You can also visit a prostitude! It's different I know, but both of them are something you could avoid and have only women you actually admire in your life! Even for a f*ck!
 

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PapiChulo said:
If we were fu*king them, they would be just the wh*res, not AWs. They get off mostly on attention from many many men, as we all know, yet I have to admit that I am currently being gamed by two AWs while trying to flip the game on them, f*ck them and disappear. The ones with low self-esteem are the easier lays. AWs are people too and are in relationships most of the time.
Who are the saps in a relationship with them? (they must be getting some even though they're being constantly disrespected)
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys, most women exhibit some AW traits to some degree, so it is not like it is a disease, but rather human behavior, in fact, it's predatory behavior coupled with a bunch of fun and ego boosts as reward for the person practicing the black art of AW at your expense. AWs play you because you do have something for them or they are considering you for a hook up, but most fail because they don't meet expectations of the AW. These expectations vary depending on the self-esteem of the AW in question.They are basically same as any other woman for the exception of ability to manipulate this well. They all want the alpha male like any other woman, but they are just more open about it, sorta like a gold-digger that is open about her lust for money. I suggest spending your time and energy on women who are genuinely interested, that is exactly what AWs don't want you to do. Play with them, use them for social proof, and forget them like a bad dream!
 

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It's not that nobody Fs AWs. It's just that for most guys it's too difficult to pull off and a waste of time.

But do AWs get laid? Yes. By whom? See below

1. AWs are status junkies. They F the DJ (disc jockey), bartender, doorman/bouncer, super tall guy, super hot ripped guy, and rich guy.

2. They also do the "secret lover" thing. It appears that they don't hook up with anyone when they go out. But once they get home, they text their ex or someone they are already hooking up with and F him. Nobody is the wiser, so she can still have the rep of a partier but not a sl@t.
 

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The dude's that don't put up with their B.S. Is who.(For ONS's at least, mainly)

One night I had some girl(who's name I didn't know and just met that night) ready to go, with her boyfriend right there at this hotel party. I have a field report up on here about it.

She was an AW. I walked up to her when she was sitting at the bar. I said something. She told me to hang on and was texting. 99% of dudes would've sat there and waited for her for her to give him some attention.

New in the DJ ways, I said F-that! I walked away and started talking to a buddy, my time was more valuable. I forget about her, sure enough , 30 min to an hour later she walks up TO ME and starts flirting.

:)
 

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joverby said:
The dude's that don't put up with their B.S. Is who.(For ONS's at least, mainly)

One night I had some girl(who's name I didn't know and just met that night) ready to go, with her boyfriend right there at this hotel party. I have a field report up on here about it.

She was an AW. I walked up to her when she was sitting at the bar. I said something. She told me to hang on and was texting. 99% of dudes would've sat there and waited for her for her to give him some attention.

New in the DJ ways, I said F-that! I walked away and started talking to a buddy, my time was more valuable. I forget about her, sure enough , 30 min to an hour later she walks up TO ME and starts flirting.

:)

I don't think it had anything to do with you leaving, she might have just been interested in how you look.

I have done this before and when I leave they don't come find me, they just say "oh well" and move on to the next one.

I am all for Field reports but do not post stuff like that and represent it as fact like if all men do XYZ this happens.

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women haze said:
I don't think it had anything to do with you leaving, she might have just been interested in how you look.

I have done this before and when I leave they don't come find me, they just say "oh well" and move on to the next one.

I am all for Field reports but do not post stuff like that and represent it as fact like if all men do XYZ this happens.

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Reactions may vary indeed. But the point I was trying to make is I wasn't going to care or sweat over it either way.

I also feel that as I said, 99% of other dudes would've waited and I bet there would've been a drastically different change of events had I sat around and waited. Definitely like how I looked but it was also how I carried myself, more importantly.

But we were specifically talking about AW's here and she seemed like one to me. Since I didn't get her the satisfaction of waiting around like 99% of other dudes would've, it peaked her interest more.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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Who are the men banging AW's? I don't know, all I know is it isn't me (Thank Christ).
 

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God wastes the best bodies on AWs. If only you could take some women's faces and give them AW bodies lol.
 

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every guy is not created equal

those AW's are only doing that to the nice guys

they are submitting to the real men

Just because she won't give YOU head doesn't mean she won't slob MY knob...
 

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There's more to AW's than just seeking attention. They're leeches, as well. They do have sex a lot, because they manipulate men constantly. It's their sport. They use and play people for everything - not just attention. Gifts, rides, money, sex - you name it. They're completely fake. Whatever relationship they get involved in doesn't last very long, because they're always getting with someone else, sleeping around, etc. Most AW's have lots of guy friends, which they circle around, sleep with, and use for whatever they can conive out of them. Bad news all around.
 

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floydb25 said:
There's more to AW's than just seeking attention. They're leeches, as well. They do have sex a lot, because they manipulate men constantly. It's their sport. They use and play people for everything - not just attention. Gifts, rides, money, sex - you name it. They're completely fake. Whatever relationship they get involved in doesn't last very long, because they're always getting with someone else, sleeping around, etc. Most AW's have lots of guy friends, which they circle around, sleep with, and use for whatever they can conive out of them. Bad news all around.
Pretty much this in every way. What I've found helps is keeping them at arms length and denying them validation/attention. Drives them up the wall creating a chase frame with me as the prize. Then when I do go out with them (as friends of course) I milk them for all the preselection I can get and use it to pick up other women in front of them. Hey, we're just friends right? Completely flips the script and drives them wild. I think this is where players succeed with these types of women and most guys fail, they don't know how to use their own nature against them, and players having lots of women get invoke AND USE that reflective form of preselection.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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