That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Who are the saps in a relationship with them? (they must be getting some even though they're being constantly disrespected)PapiChulo said:If we were fu*king them, they would be just the wh*res, not AWs. They get off mostly on attention from many many men, as we all know, yet I have to admit that I am currently being gamed by two AWs while trying to flip the game on them, f*ck them and disappear. The ones with low self-esteem are the easier lays. AWs are people too and are in relationships most of the time.
This should answer that question:pikachu69 said:They say avoid the attention wh0res cos they're nothing but trouble.. but someone's got to be f'ing them.. who??
Seems like just right time right place, opportunistic lay.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
joverby said:The dude's that don't put up with their B.S. Is who.(For ONS's at least, mainly)
One night I had some girl(who's name I didn't know and just met that night) ready to go, with her boyfriend right there at this hotel party. I have a field report up on here about it.
She was an AW. I walked up to her when she was sitting at the bar. I said something. She told me to hang on and was texting. 99% of dudes would've sat there and waited for her for her to give him some attention.
New in the DJ ways, I said F-that! I walked away and started talking to a buddy, my time was more valuable. I forget about her, sure enough , 30 min to an hour later she walks up TO ME and starts flirting.
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Reactions may vary indeed. But the point I was trying to make is I wasn't going to care or sweat over it either way.women haze said:I don't think it had anything to do with you leaving, she might have just been interested in how you look.
I have done this before and when I leave they don't come find me, they just say "oh well" and move on to the next one.
I am all for Field reports but do not post stuff like that and represent it as fact like if all men do XYZ this happens.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Pretty much this in every way. What I've found helps is keeping them at arms length and denying them validation/attention. Drives them up the wall creating a chase frame with me as the prize. Then when I do go out with them (as friends of course) I milk them for all the preselection I can get and use it to pick up other women in front of them. Hey, we're just friends right? Completely flips the script and drives them wild. I think this is where players succeed with these types of women and most guys fail, they don't know how to use their own nature against them, and players having lots of women get invoke AND USE that reflective form of preselection.floydb25 said:There's more to AW's than just seeking attention. They're leeches, as well. They do have sex a lot, because they manipulate men constantly. It's their sport. They use and play people for everything - not just attention. Gifts, rides, money, sex - you name it. They're completely fake. Whatever relationship they get involved in doesn't last very long, because they're always getting with someone else, sleeping around, etc. Most AW's have lots of guy friends, which they circle around, sleep with, and use for whatever they can conive out of them. Bad news all around.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.