You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Who are the saps in a relationship with them? (they must be getting some even though they're being constantly disrespected)PapiChulo said:If we were fu*king them, they would be just the wh*res, not AWs. They get off mostly on attention from many many men, as we all know, yet I have to admit that I am currently being gamed by two AWs while trying to flip the game on them, f*ck them and disappear. The ones with low self-esteem are the easier lays. AWs are people too and are in relationships most of the time.
This should answer that question:pikachu69 said:They say avoid the attention wh0res cos they're nothing but trouble.. but someone's got to be f'ing them.. who??
Seems like just right time right place, opportunistic lay.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
joverby said:The dude's that don't put up with their B.S. Is who.(For ONS's at least, mainly)
One night I had some girl(who's name I didn't know and just met that night) ready to go, with her boyfriend right there at this hotel party. I have a field report up on here about it.
She was an AW. I walked up to her when she was sitting at the bar. I said something. She told me to hang on and was texting. 99% of dudes would've sat there and waited for her for her to give him some attention.
New in the DJ ways, I said F-that! I walked away and started talking to a buddy, my time was more valuable. I forget about her, sure enough , 30 min to an hour later she walks up TO ME and starts flirting.
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Reactions may vary indeed. But the point I was trying to make is I wasn't going to care or sweat over it either way.women haze said:I don't think it had anything to do with you leaving, she might have just been interested in how you look.
I have done this before and when I leave they don't come find me, they just say "oh well" and move on to the next one.
I am all for Field reports but do not post stuff like that and represent it as fact like if all men do XYZ this happens.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Pretty much this in every way. What I've found helps is keeping them at arms length and denying them validation/attention. Drives them up the wall creating a chase frame with me as the prize. Then when I do go out with them (as friends of course) I milk them for all the preselection I can get and use it to pick up other women in front of them. Hey, we're just friends right? Completely flips the script and drives them wild. I think this is where players succeed with these types of women and most guys fail, they don't know how to use their own nature against them, and players having lots of women get invoke AND USE that reflective form of preselection.floydb25 said:There's more to AW's than just seeking attention. They're leeches, as well. They do have sex a lot, because they manipulate men constantly. It's their sport. They use and play people for everything - not just attention. Gifts, rides, money, sex - you name it. They're completely fake. Whatever relationship they get involved in doesn't last very long, because they're always getting with someone else, sleeping around, etc. Most AW's have lots of guy friends, which they circle around, sleep with, and use for whatever they can conive out of them. Bad news all around.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.