"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who´s your idol when it comes to being a man?

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On that note, I think Augustus, adopted child of Julius Caesar, was a pretty cool dude.

Despite the fact he was young, naive, and inexperienced, he managed to consolidate his power position, crush his far-more-experienced enemies, and turn the Roman Republic into a one-man dictatorship.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hmm, lets see, frank sinatra, my great great great great great grandfather who used to rob Turkish weddings for a living, popeye, and of course my old man.
 

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Marquis de Sade

and maybe Caligula...

except, without the "endulging in dudes and little boys" part.

(but I'm pretty hedonistic)
 

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Vincent said:
Am I the only one who sees the contradiction in this?
No you're not. I noticed it also...along with his signature. "For gold, God, and glory!" Athiest huh? Ooookayy. Athiesm is stupid anyways.

I'd have to say Shaun Alexander or Brett Favre. Shaun Alexander I just have to respect him because of the role model he presents to young kids, he doesn't fall into the stereotypical star athlete role. Brett Favre is just a badass, 2 hundred and how many consecutive starts now? Wow! Neither of them fit into the stereotypical stars.

But pretty much I tought myself how to be a man, gettin money, how to act, how to carry myself and such.
 
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Don't hijack the thread with religious BS seriously it screws everything up and someone will close the thread it cuz it's "POLITICAL!" and it's BORING.

My heros are Clint Eastwood, Julius Ceaser, James Bond, Tyler Durden...but I gotta say my favorite is def Fedor Emelianenko Pride-UFC Fighter (AKA The Last Russian Emperor) Record 25-1, Current Heavy Weight Champ! seriously the best fighter ever he's got everything (Striking, Grappling, Submissions) and can kick ANYONE'S ASS including Tyson and Bruce Lee in their prime cuz he trains like a madman.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Julius Caesar, Seqen and both sons(Egyptian Pharoh, who took back all of Egypt from the Hyksos invaders during the Second Intermediate period Circa 2060 BCE), anyone from the Rat Pack, Clint Eastwood, Indiana Jones, Han Solo, and many others.

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Ronaldinho.

Loves life, never stops smiling doing his job. Does what he loves and lives to do! Is not one bit conceited, and still gets embarassed when someone gives him a positive comment. Is nice to everyone. Hasnt gone all out trying to perfect his teeth and his image, but is happy how he is. Not to mention, he is the best damn football player on the planet!
 

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No one chose Don Juan? Interesting. His history is a little unclear, and many have a different take on him.

Maybe its just nostalgia, but Sean Connery as James Bond: Pvssy Galore anyone?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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