"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Well, you're lying as well to protect Gio. Not that I blame you, since at least someone from sosuave should be engaged to someone who stands up for him no matter what, but it's still delusional.

And yeah, you did ask to be brought into it, by posting in this thread.
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i dont lie.
i posted in this thread because you went out of your way to call me delusional.
i posted in this thread because i witnessed that he did not edit a dang thing crowes said.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You aren't the judge of what I deserve to know. Hell, you aren't even a good judge of who to ban and whose posts to delete.
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Unfortunately for you, I am the judge of what you deserve to know as it pertains to this subject. If you want to appeal that judgement, ask the admin. I'm sure he has nothing else better to do with his time than to lay out in terms acceptable to you why it was necessary to ban any particular member or another.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Unfortunately for you, I am the judge of what you deserve to know as it pertains to this subject. If you want to appeal that judgement, ask the admin. I'm sure he has nothing else better to do with his time than to lay out in terms acceptable to you why it was necessary to ban any particular member or another.
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Actually, no you aren't. Once again, you are a bad judge of it. Your whole moderator tenure has been characterized by you being a power abuser. Enough is enough, and if Allen knows how to run a website at all, you will be de-modded as soon as he logs on.
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
i dont lie.
i posted in this thread because you went out of your way to call me delusional.
i posted in this thread because i witnessed that he did not edit a dang thing crowes said.
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You posted BEFORE I called you delusional, and your post is WHY I called you delusional. If you can't even keep post times straight, how can you keep straight what Gio did or did not edit?

In fact, if you are so honest yourself, YOU explain why crowes was banned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You posted BEFORE I called you delusional, and your post is WHY I called you delusional. If you can't even keep post times straight, how can you keep straight what Gio did or did not edit?

In fact, if you are so honest yourself, YOU explain why crowes was banned.
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pm allen and ask him so you can keep your facts straight.
 
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I gotta say, SJ, your pseudo modding gets pretty annoying.

And all of you are a$$holes for hijacking this thread! What a mods job is now, is to seperate the bull**** out of this thread, and put it into another, seperate thread. From there, you can continue to argue with facts you can never prove.

Peace.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Actually, no you aren't.
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Well, if you don't think I'm the judge of what you deserve to know about this situation, then ask someone else. Or you can continue to just make up your own little pretend stories about what you think might have happened. Either way is fine by me.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Hmm... let me think about it.

On the one hand, there's nothing in it for me if I do. On the other hand, there's still nothing in it for me if I do. So...

Nope.
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Bullsh!t aside I really dont think your smart ass remarks and sarcasm should carry you out of this one, Obviously you had a big part of Crowes banning yes? You fvcked up on this one, swallow yor pride and get him back. Nobody cares about this political wank. Guys that contribute to this place as well as he did are as rare as hens teeth.
 
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Bullsh!t aside I really dont think your smart ass remarks and sarcasm should carry you out of this one, Obviously you had a big part of Crowes banning yes? You fvcked up on this one, swallow yor pride and get him back.
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Crowes is fully responsible for crowes being banned.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
No, you are. Don't play stupid.
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I did not make Crowes do what he did to get banned.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You baited him. Baiting is not a mod's job. You've done the same thing to other posters, and you did the same to him.
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please provide link to this so called bait you are speaking of.
dont have one do you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You baited him. Baiting is not a mod's job. You've done the same thing to other posters, and you did the same to him.
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You clearly have no clue as to why crowes was banned.

You want to talk about delusions... the strange alternate reality you have invented surrounding the well-deserved banning of some guy on an internet forum certainly should qualify.

I will now return you all to the MetalFortress Talking Out His Ass About Things He Knows Nothing About Show, already in progress.
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
please provide link to this so called bait you are speaking of.
dont have one do you?
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no, and he probably never will, because all the evidence was deleted and distorted.

hence, i came on here asking what happened.

with PRL and Player_Supreme it was a bit more obvious because both of them occasionally became the center of heated flame wars...though great posters nonetheless.

anyway, I have seen other posts "stealth edited" by a mod before...sometimes it's funny actually.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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