"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Well, you're lying as well to protect Gio. Not that I blame you, since at least someone from sosuave should be engaged to someone who stands up for him no matter what, but it's still delusional.

And yeah, you did ask to be brought into it, by posting in this thread.
i dont lie.
i posted in this thread because you went out of your way to call me delusional.
i posted in this thread because i witnessed that he did not edit a dang thing crowes said.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You aren't the judge of what I deserve to know. Hell, you aren't even a good judge of who to ban and whose posts to delete.
Unfortunately for you, I am the judge of what you deserve to know as it pertains to this subject. If you want to appeal that judgement, ask the admin. I'm sure he has nothing else better to do with his time than to lay out in terms acceptable to you why it was necessary to ban any particular member or another.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Unfortunately for you, I am the judge of what you deserve to know as it pertains to this subject. If you want to appeal that judgement, ask the admin. I'm sure he has nothing else better to do with his time than to lay out in terms acceptable to you why it was necessary to ban any particular member or another.
Actually, no you aren't. Once again, you are a bad judge of it. Your whole moderator tenure has been characterized by you being a power abuser. Enough is enough, and if Allen knows how to run a website at all, you will be de-modded as soon as he logs on.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
i dont lie.
i posted in this thread because you went out of your way to call me delusional.
i posted in this thread because i witnessed that he did not edit a dang thing crowes said.
You posted BEFORE I called you delusional, and your post is WHY I called you delusional. If you can't even keep post times straight, how can you keep straight what Gio did or did not edit?

In fact, if you are so honest yourself, YOU explain why crowes was banned.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You posted BEFORE I called you delusional, and your post is WHY I called you delusional. If you can't even keep post times straight, how can you keep straight what Gio did or did not edit?

In fact, if you are so honest yourself, YOU explain why crowes was banned.
pm allen and ask him so you can keep your facts straight.
 

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I gotta say, SJ, your pseudo modding gets pretty annoying.

And all of you are a$$holes for hijacking this thread! What a mods job is now, is to seperate the bull**** out of this thread, and put it into another, seperate thread. From there, you can continue to argue with facts you can never prove.

Peace.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Actually, no you aren't.
Well, if you don't think I'm the judge of what you deserve to know about this situation, then ask someone else. Or you can continue to just make up your own little pretend stories about what you think might have happened. Either way is fine by me.
 

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Hmm... let me think about it.

On the one hand, there's nothing in it for me if I do. On the other hand, there's still nothing in it for me if I do. So...

Nope.
Bullsh!t aside I really dont think your smart ass remarks and sarcasm should carry you out of this one, Obviously you had a big part of Crowes banning yes? You fvcked up on this one, swallow yor pride and get him back. Nobody cares about this political wank. Guys that contribute to this place as well as he did are as rare as hens teeth.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Bullsh!t aside I really dont think your smart ass remarks and sarcasm should carry you out of this one, Obviously you had a big part of Crowes banning yes? You fvcked up on this one, swallow yor pride and get him back.
Crowes is fully responsible for crowes being banned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
No, you are. Don't play stupid.
I did not make Crowes do what he did to get banned.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You baited him. Baiting is not a mod's job. You've done the same thing to other posters, and you did the same to him.
please provide link to this so called bait you are speaking of.
dont have one do you?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
You baited him. Baiting is not a mod's job. You've done the same thing to other posters, and you did the same to him.
You clearly have no clue as to why crowes was banned.

You want to talk about delusions... the strange alternate reality you have invented surrounding the well-deserved banning of some guy on an internet forum certainly should qualify.

I will now return you all to the MetalFortress Talking Out His Ass About Things He Knows Nothing About Show, already in progress.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
please provide link to this so called bait you are speaking of.
dont have one do you?
no, and he probably never will, because all the evidence was deleted and distorted.

hence, i came on here asking what happened.

with PRL and Player_Supreme it was a bit more obvious because both of them occasionally became the center of heated flame wars...though great posters nonetheless.

anyway, I have seen other posts "stealth edited" by a mod before...sometimes it's funny actually.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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