"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Which Woman?

Vikman

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I'm in a real pickle here. I'm stuck between two women and not sure who to choose.

I'm currently dating one woman. Let's call her Girl A. We've been seeing each other for almost two months now. The sex is great and she's a year younger. We both live on campus at college, and both our homes are only 20 minutes away from each other. However, we're different majors and sometimes we have arguements. She suffers from an eating disorder which alway ruins "the mood" and causes these arguements.

Enter Girl B. I've known her for a about a month now. She lives about 25 minutes from my campus, which means from my real home she's eaisly an hour away. But we're the same major and she's a year older than me. I already know she's interested in me. Even though she has an annoying laugh, she shares the same religion as I do (unlike Girl A- which means my folks aren't happy with my choice of Girl A).

Girl A (my gf) became suspisious today when she saw that I was chatting and eating with Girl B (not good). I'm conflicted about which woman I should be with. Please offer me advice to help my situtation. Either way, I would still like to be friends with the other woman.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KarmaSutra

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Vikman said:
Girl A (my gf) became suspisious today when she saw that I was chatting and eating with Girl B (not good). I'm conflicted about which woman I should be with. Please offer me advice to help my situtation. Either way, I would still like to be friends with the other woman.
This is the meat of your post. If A doesn't like the fact that you're talking or even fvcking another girl IT IS HER DAMNED PROBLEM not yours. If you aren't commited to her or married to her you have free reign to fvck anything that saunters.

let this burn itself into your brain:

KARMIC LAW # 15 - If you're not having any type of sexual relationship with her you're her girlfriend.
 

Vikman

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But she is my gf. We are already commited. What should I do?
 

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Umm.. I think this is your decision, not ours. Who do you want to be with?
 

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Didn't you watch Starship Troopers?

Figuring things out for yourself is practically the only freedom anyone really has nowadays. Use that freedom
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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