"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm in a real pickle here. I'm stuck between two women and not sure who to choose.

I'm currently dating one woman. Let's call her Girl A. We've been seeing each other for almost two months now. The sex is great and she's a year younger. We both live on campus at college, and both our homes are only 20 minutes away from each other. However, we're different majors and sometimes we have arguements. She suffers from an eating disorder which alway ruins "the mood" and causes these arguements.

Enter Girl B. I've known her for a about a month now. She lives about 25 minutes from my campus, which means from my real home she's eaisly an hour away. But we're the same major and she's a year older than me. I already know she's interested in me. Even though she has an annoying laugh, she shares the same religion as I do (unlike Girl A- which means my folks aren't happy with my choice of Girl A).

Girl A (my gf) became suspisious today when she saw that I was chatting and eating with Girl B (not good). I'm conflicted about which woman I should be with. Please offer me advice to help my situtation. Either way, I would still like to be friends with the other woman.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Vikman said:
Girl A (my gf) became suspisious today when she saw that I was chatting and eating with Girl B (not good). I'm conflicted about which woman I should be with. Please offer me advice to help my situtation. Either way, I would still like to be friends with the other woman.
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This is the meat of your post. If A doesn't like the fact that you're talking or even fvcking another girl IT IS HER DAMNED PROBLEM not yours. If you aren't commited to her or married to her you have free reign to fvck anything that saunters.

let this burn itself into your brain:

KARMIC LAW # 15 - If you're not having any type of sexual relationship with her you're her girlfriend.
 
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But she is my gf. We are already commited. What should I do?
 
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Umm.. I think this is your decision, not ours. Who do you want to be with?
 
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Didn't you watch Starship Troopers?

Figuring things out for yourself is practically the only freedom anyone really has nowadays. Use that freedom
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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