"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Which Woman?

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I'm in a real pickle here. I'm stuck between two women and not sure who to choose.

I'm currently dating one woman. Let's call her Girl A. We've been seeing each other for almost two months now. The sex is great and she's a year younger. We both live on campus at college, and both our homes are only 20 minutes away from each other. However, we're different majors and sometimes we have arguements. She suffers from an eating disorder which alway ruins "the mood" and causes these arguements.

Enter Girl B. I've known her for a about a month now. She lives about 25 minutes from my campus, which means from my real home she's eaisly an hour away. But we're the same major and she's a year older than me. I already know she's interested in me. Even though she has an annoying laugh, she shares the same religion as I do (unlike Girl A- which means my folks aren't happy with my choice of Girl A).

Girl A (my gf) became suspisious today when she saw that I was chatting and eating with Girl B (not good). I'm conflicted about which woman I should be with. Please offer me advice to help my situtation. Either way, I would still like to be friends with the other woman.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vikman said:
Girl A (my gf) became suspisious today when she saw that I was chatting and eating with Girl B (not good). I'm conflicted about which woman I should be with. Please offer me advice to help my situtation. Either way, I would still like to be friends with the other woman.
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This is the meat of your post. If A doesn't like the fact that you're talking or even fvcking another girl IT IS HER DAMNED PROBLEM not yours. If you aren't commited to her or married to her you have free reign to fvck anything that saunters.

let this burn itself into your brain:

KARMIC LAW # 15 - If you're not having any type of sexual relationship with her you're her girlfriend.
 
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But she is my gf. We are already commited. What should I do?
 
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Umm.. I think this is your decision, not ours. Who do you want to be with?
 
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Didn't you watch Starship Troopers?

Figuring things out for yourself is practically the only freedom anyone really has nowadays. Use that freedom
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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