"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Which type of personality is more attractive to women?

BannedGod

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Assuming both have good self-esteem and can maintain good conversation, have good body language and etc

A really loud person constantly making funny remarks (either stupid or not), or at least trying too, and basically trying to act as the clown of a group and that tries to make everyone laugh (loud-mouth basically), or

A person that's more calm, detached, that can make smart/funny remarks at the appropriate time but doesn't talk much and isn't loud and basically not attracting all the eyes towards him.

Edit: It's a pretty subjective question to ask. But speaking out of experience, from what you've seen before would you know which tends to attract more girls? or is it really too hard to tell?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's like asking what do people prefer, coffee or hot chocolate?

It varies. If both of the people you described were confident and outgoing enough, they would both be attractive to a decent amount of women...but which is "more attractive" will vary from girl to girl.
 

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shaunuk said:
That's like asking what do people prefer, coffee or hot chocolate?

It varies. If both of the people you described were confident and outgoing enough, they would both be attractive to a decent amount of women...but which is "more attractive" will vary from girl to girl.
Yeah I guess you're right, it's a pretty subjective question to ask. But speaking out of experience, from what you've seen before would you know which tends to attract more girls? or is it really too hard to tell?
 

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I don't like the obnoxious, loud-mouthed types.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Depend on how they are otherwise, is the detached guy a kind of artist etc.. etc.. Is the loud guy a bad boy?

Read David D 8 types that naturally attract women.


Btw: Is it against the forum rules to redistribute .pdfs?
 

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MisterMcGee said:
And we don't like dumb blondes with shapely fake tits.
Me either! :D
 

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whichever guy is more attractive has the better personality.
 
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