"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Which type of personality is more attractive to women?

BannedGod

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Assuming both have good self-esteem and can maintain good conversation, have good body language and etc

A really loud person constantly making funny remarks (either stupid or not), or at least trying too, and basically trying to act as the clown of a group and that tries to make everyone laugh (loud-mouth basically), or

A person that's more calm, detached, that can make smart/funny remarks at the appropriate time but doesn't talk much and isn't loud and basically not attracting all the eyes towards him.

Edit: It's a pretty subjective question to ask. But speaking out of experience, from what you've seen before would you know which tends to attract more girls? or is it really too hard to tell?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That's like asking what do people prefer, coffee or hot chocolate?

It varies. If both of the people you described were confident and outgoing enough, they would both be attractive to a decent amount of women...but which is "more attractive" will vary from girl to girl.
 

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shaunuk said:
That's like asking what do people prefer, coffee or hot chocolate?

It varies. If both of the people you described were confident and outgoing enough, they would both be attractive to a decent amount of women...but which is "more attractive" will vary from girl to girl.
Yeah I guess you're right, it's a pretty subjective question to ask. But speaking out of experience, from what you've seen before would you know which tends to attract more girls? or is it really too hard to tell?
 

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I don't like the obnoxious, loud-mouthed types.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Depend on how they are otherwise, is the detached guy a kind of artist etc.. etc.. Is the loud guy a bad boy?

Read David D 8 types that naturally attract women.


Btw: Is it against the forum rules to redistribute .pdfs?
 

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MisterMcGee said:
And we don't like dumb blondes with shapely fake tits.
Me either! :D
 

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whichever guy is more attractive has the better personality.
 
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