"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Which type of personality is more attractive to women?

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Assuming both have good self-esteem and can maintain good conversation, have good body language and etc

A really loud person constantly making funny remarks (either stupid or not), or at least trying too, and basically trying to act as the clown of a group and that tries to make everyone laugh (loud-mouth basically), or

A person that's more calm, detached, that can make smart/funny remarks at the appropriate time but doesn't talk much and isn't loud and basically not attracting all the eyes towards him.

Edit: It's a pretty subjective question to ask. But speaking out of experience, from what you've seen before would you know which tends to attract more girls? or is it really too hard to tell?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That's like asking what do people prefer, coffee or hot chocolate?

It varies. If both of the people you described were confident and outgoing enough, they would both be attractive to a decent amount of women...but which is "more attractive" will vary from girl to girl.
 
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shaunuk said:
That's like asking what do people prefer, coffee or hot chocolate?

It varies. If both of the people you described were confident and outgoing enough, they would both be attractive to a decent amount of women...but which is "more attractive" will vary from girl to girl.
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Yeah I guess you're right, it's a pretty subjective question to ask. But speaking out of experience, from what you've seen before would you know which tends to attract more girls? or is it really too hard to tell?
 
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I don't like the obnoxious, loud-mouthed types.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depend on how they are otherwise, is the detached guy a kind of artist etc.. etc.. Is the loud guy a bad boy?

Read David D 8 types that naturally attract women.


Btw: Is it against the forum rules to redistribute .pdfs?
 
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MisterMcGee said:
And we don't like dumb blondes with shapely fake tits.
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Me either! :D
 
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whichever guy is more attractive has the better personality.
 
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