Ok guys, the university started last week, and so far, I've taken quiet a lot of steps to improve myself, to become more comfortable around girls. These are the things I have started for upcoming semester.
1) Joined salsa, swing dance class at Concordia University
2) Joined hip hop, social dance and swimming lessons at McGill university
3) I dress to impress, as I took out my geeky prescription glasses, and old clothing line and replaced it with the unique styles and colors of leather jackets, suits, and stylish shirts and pants, with party shoes and also took away the old backpack, and replaced it by over shoulder laptop bag. I also wear sunglasses, time to time...
4) Got a laptop to spend more time at 7th floor cafeteria area, and wait for potential approach.
5) Signed up for many university workshops, where I'll get to refine on many of my social, career and academic skills, and possibly approach in that group.
6) Became pro-active and very talkative in class and university, doing so I've been able to assemble very strong project teams, and I'm starting to build good friendships with new people, somehow I am able to attract people just by my sheer energetic and talkative nature.
7) I approach whenever possible in bus, and metro.
8) Getting my drivers license..
Problem I have is, I just started this path 9 months months ago, and I don't know what my short term goals should be, any example of how this will reveal itself would be very helpful.
Is it ok, if I work on improving my social skills, body language, and more importantly becoming comfortable in the company of a woman or should I start going for digit right away?
is it better to pace myself slowly for eventual self growth?
1) Joined salsa, swing dance class at Concordia University
2) Joined hip hop, social dance and swimming lessons at McGill university
3) I dress to impress, as I took out my geeky prescription glasses, and old clothing line and replaced it with the unique styles and colors of leather jackets, suits, and stylish shirts and pants, with party shoes and also took away the old backpack, and replaced it by over shoulder laptop bag. I also wear sunglasses, time to time...
4) Got a laptop to spend more time at 7th floor cafeteria area, and wait for potential approach.
5) Signed up for many university workshops, where I'll get to refine on many of my social, career and academic skills, and possibly approach in that group.
6) Became pro-active and very talkative in class and university, doing so I've been able to assemble very strong project teams, and I'm starting to build good friendships with new people, somehow I am able to attract people just by my sheer energetic and talkative nature.
7) I approach whenever possible in bus, and metro.
8) Getting my drivers license..
Problem I have is, I just started this path 9 months months ago, and I don't know what my short term goals should be, any example of how this will reveal itself would be very helpful.
Is it ok, if I work on improving my social skills, body language, and more importantly becoming comfortable in the company of a woman or should I start going for digit right away?
is it better to pace myself slowly for eventual self growth?
