"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Which of these times was I closest to losing my virgnity?

Where was I closest to getting laid?

  • Girl 1

    Votes: 9 50.0%
  • Girl 2

    Votes: 8 44.4%
  • Girl 3

    Votes: 1 5.6%

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    18

Demystify

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I know none of these are anywhere near sex, but I'm curious as to which of these three times were the closest, as in which one I had the most potential of getting laid.

Girl 1: I madeout with her at a bathroom at a party. She wrapped her legs around me as we were making out. This was probably the hottest makeout session I've had as well as the most massive erection I've gotten with a girl.

Girl 2: I madeout with her on a balcony at a party. She told me I didn't know how to kiss a girl but she still ended up showing me how and ended up grabbing my **** and let me put my hands on her vagina area.

Girl 3: I madeout with her in a booth at a bar. We shared drags of a cigarette as we locked tongues. This was probably the longest makeout session I've had and also probably had the most elaborate kiss interaction.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Flabbergasped?

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All 3.

You should have just brought them back to your place with this: "Let's go back to my place/room/house."

If she's making out with you hardcore, she'll probably say yes.

If I had to pick one, I'd say girl 1 because it was at a party, party girls are usually pretty easy.
 

oakraiderz2

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Use your hands next time and you wont have to ask this question.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thederekeffect1

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lmao @ better then dead. Mean and uncalled for, but still funny.

You had a good chance with both Girl 1 and Girl 2. Not so sure about Girl 3. If I had to choose, Girl 2. She obviously wanted something from you that was more then a make out session.
 

AKA FLEX

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Who cares? Until your thunder pole breaks through the hole, you're still a V. Go find Girl 4, spread her legs and go to town.
 

saber

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imo girl 2

When I was really bad with women I would always be pushing the makeout and completely out of the normal rythem/acting desperite compounded with inexperience....

When you start to make out with a chick stop after the first 3 seconds and then say...." what do you think your doing?" or "your not getting laid"

Then start flirting/talking with her but not making out a lot...


Which of these times were you having the most fun and being patient for the inevitable?
 

Juan_Man

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Definitely Girl #1 because you had her in a bathroom. Her legs were wrapped around your body. All you had to do was remove your belt.

Go find Girl #4!
 

Demystify

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betterthandead said:
You do know that incestual passion with your sister is disgusting.
Well, I don't get the joke and at any rate I don't have a sister so you got lucky.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I'd say the bathroom chick, but remember to always wear a condom. A friend of mine got chylmedia from a ONS he met at a party.
 
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