"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Which is harder, when they still have feelings for you or when they've lost all?

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Hi, guys. Just a short question here. Which situation is easier for you to get over a breakup: when they still has some feelings left but for some reason you can't be together, or when they've lost all of their feelings for you and leave you coldly?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No feelings, and leave coldly. Well thats me.
 
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Sorry the question in the title is different from the question in the post. So I don't know to which question you guys answered.

for me it's harder when they still have feelings. because it keeps giving me hope, and that slows down my recovery. but when they left us coldly, it hurts at first, but later I can just say "well, funk her. it's her lost."
 
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Most of the time the girl pretends there's feelings left but for some "reason" it won't work out. Different smell, same shiet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fela Kuti said:
Sorry the question in the title is different from the question in the post. So I don't know to which question you guys answered.

for me it's harder when they still have feelings. because it keeps giving me hope, and that slows down my recovery. but when they left us coldly, it hurts at first, but later I can just say "well, funk her. it's her lost."
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No. No feelings is much much harder because it can shatter every ounce of confidence you might have had in yourself. It also makes you question yourself as to why you'd be involved with someone so heartless in the first place.
 
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