"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which is harder, when they still have feelings for you or when they've lost all?

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Hi, guys. Just a short question here. Which situation is easier for you to get over a breakup: when they still has some feelings left but for some reason you can't be together, or when they've lost all of their feelings for you and leave you coldly?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No feelings, and leave coldly. Well thats me.
 
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Sorry the question in the title is different from the question in the post. So I don't know to which question you guys answered.

for me it's harder when they still have feelings. because it keeps giving me hope, and that slows down my recovery. but when they left us coldly, it hurts at first, but later I can just say "well, funk her. it's her lost."
 
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Most of the time the girl pretends there's feelings left but for some "reason" it won't work out. Different smell, same shiet.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fela Kuti said:
Sorry the question in the title is different from the question in the post. So I don't know to which question you guys answered.

for me it's harder when they still have feelings. because it keeps giving me hope, and that slows down my recovery. but when they left us coldly, it hurts at first, but later I can just say "well, funk her. it's her lost."
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No. No feelings is much much harder because it can shatter every ounce of confidence you might have had in yourself. It also makes you question yourself as to why you'd be involved with someone so heartless in the first place.
 
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