Craig Dates
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 3, 2019
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Which do you prefer sex wise?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
We all are. What's the preference, if the others had to go?I'm good with all.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If she has a nice butt, anal, can't beat the tightness. Anal > BJ > Vag.We all are. What's the preference, if the others had to go?
Depends upon the vagina. Anal is only tight at the ring at the entrance. The colon has no structural integrity.If she has a nice butt, anal, can't beat the tightness. Anal > BJ > Vag.
I love oral, but it rarely ever gets me off. Even face fvcking doesn't always do it. Vaginal and Anal work for me every time.Many girls can't give good head without being told what to do. "Hands off" is a common command.
All girls can get fvcked though.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When I was younger I had this girl that loved to be face fvcked. We would get drunk and she would beg for it.Face fvcking is fun, especially when she gags and chokes up spit. One of the few advantages of having an average sized d!ck is being able to face fvck pretty much any girl. Same goes for anal.
Cvmming in her mouth is a dilemma; it's so much more impactful to cvm on her face or at least on her tongue, but instinctually I grab the back of her head and push my c0ck right down her throat at zero hour. It's like I have to fight the urge to do it.
Cvm dodging girls are the worst. Next.
True, but I always find more stimulation through anal and oral. @CopperHead has a point. Unless you guide them, the BJs aren't the best. Face****ing is always my preferred method for oral sex. Going to have to disagree with the munching on the puzzy. I am not into that sh!t. Besides, I am usually able to get them to squirt vaginally and through hand motion. A combo of both seems to work well. Still love the anal. I just find a lot of women who've had other bro's in them, which is fine, are a lot looser than the butt. The vag is supposed to go back to it's original shape, but I really need to go deep on have her on her side for me to get enough sensation to climax. Perhaps it's me, or perhaps I get bored of sex more often with the same woman. Not sure. Always down for a good face fvck though. Which is weird, as the throat is not as tight as the vag. So, it's strange.Depends upon the vagina. Anal is only tight at the ring at the entrance. The colon has no structural integrity.
There are different vagina's. The tightest I was in had 4 rings in the "barrel", she could contract each ring individually like a trumpet player. In the vagina there are different textures ( it can be velvet, bumpy, etc ) and different viscosities. It's designed by nature for sex.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You obviously haven't had a true deep-throat BJ. John Holmes was deepthroated to the balls back in the day by the star from "Deep throat" and there was a nother lady. Lexington Steele has been deepthroated all the way to the base. So has Mandigo.BJs, FF & DT look hot in porn. But I’ve found them disappointing IRL. I don’t eat Pvssy. I have a big dic, so all Pvssy feels tight to me. Anal seems meh. Don’t like poo-poo.
. The girls that did me weren’t pros like these porn stars. Maybe a really skilled DT queen would be amazing. My experience with the ‘amateurs’ was meh. None of them ever got the last inch in.You obviously haven't had a true deep-throat BJ. John Holmes was deepthroated to the balls back in the day by the star from "Deep throat" and there was a nother lady. Lexington Steele has been deepthroated all the way to the base. So has Mandigo.
A good BJ feels great. It's a great side piece or foreplay to good sex.
Well.
. The girls that did me weren’t pros like these porn stars. Maybe a really skilled DT queen would be amazing. My experience with the ‘amateurs’ was meh. None of them ever got the last inch in.
My ex was doing it back starting in 2001. She tought her self on me. They get control of the throat so it won't gag and its like a vagina in there lol. So she'll bury it deep in her mouth.Well.
. The girls that did me weren’t pros like these porn stars. Maybe a really skilled DT queen would be amazing. My experience with the ‘amateurs’ was meh. None of them ever got the last inch in.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.