Craig Dates
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 3, 2019
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Which do you prefer sex wise?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
We all are. What's the preference, if the others had to go?I'm good with all.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If she has a nice butt, anal, can't beat the tightness. Anal > BJ > Vag.We all are. What's the preference, if the others had to go?
Depends upon the vagina. Anal is only tight at the ring at the entrance. The colon has no structural integrity.If she has a nice butt, anal, can't beat the tightness. Anal > BJ > Vag.
I love oral, but it rarely ever gets me off. Even face fvcking doesn't always do it. Vaginal and Anal work for me every time.Many girls can't give good head without being told what to do. "Hands off" is a common command.
All girls can get fvcked though.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
When I was younger I had this girl that loved to be face fvcked. We would get drunk and she would beg for it.Face fvcking is fun, especially when she gags and chokes up spit. One of the few advantages of having an average sized d!ck is being able to face fvck pretty much any girl. Same goes for anal.
Cvmming in her mouth is a dilemma; it's so much more impactful to cvm on her face or at least on her tongue, but instinctually I grab the back of her head and push my c0ck right down her throat at zero hour. It's like I have to fight the urge to do it.
Cvm dodging girls are the worst. Next.
True, but I always find more stimulation through anal and oral. @CopperHead has a point. Unless you guide them, the BJs aren't the best. Face****ing is always my preferred method for oral sex. Going to have to disagree with the munching on the puzzy. I am not into that sh!t. Besides, I am usually able to get them to squirt vaginally and through hand motion. A combo of both seems to work well. Still love the anal. I just find a lot of women who've had other bro's in them, which is fine, are a lot looser than the butt. The vag is supposed to go back to it's original shape, but I really need to go deep on have her on her side for me to get enough sensation to climax. Perhaps it's me, or perhaps I get bored of sex more often with the same woman. Not sure. Always down for a good face fvck though. Which is weird, as the throat is not as tight as the vag. So, it's strange.Depends upon the vagina. Anal is only tight at the ring at the entrance. The colon has no structural integrity.
There are different vagina's. The tightest I was in had 4 rings in the "barrel", she could contract each ring individually like a trumpet player. In the vagina there are different textures ( it can be velvet, bumpy, etc ) and different viscosities. It's designed by nature for sex.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You obviously haven't had a true deep-throat BJ. John Holmes was deepthroated to the balls back in the day by the star from "Deep throat" and there was a nother lady. Lexington Steele has been deepthroated all the way to the base. So has Mandigo.BJs, FF & DT look hot in porn. But I’ve found them disappointing IRL. I don’t eat Pvssy. I have a big dic, so all Pvssy feels tight to me. Anal seems meh. Don’t like poo-poo.
. The girls that did me weren’t pros like these porn stars. Maybe a really skilled DT queen would be amazing. My experience with the ‘amateurs’ was meh. None of them ever got the last inch in.You obviously haven't had a true deep-throat BJ. John Holmes was deepthroated to the balls back in the day by the star from "Deep throat" and there was a nother lady. Lexington Steele has been deepthroated all the way to the base. So has Mandigo.
A good BJ feels great. It's a great side piece or foreplay to good sex.
Well.
. The girls that did me weren’t pros like these porn stars. Maybe a really skilled DT queen would be amazing. My experience with the ‘amateurs’ was meh. None of them ever got the last inch in.
My ex was doing it back starting in 2001. She tought her self on me. They get control of the throat so it won't gag and its like a vagina in there lol. So she'll bury it deep in her mouth.Well.
. The girls that did me weren’t pros like these porn stars. Maybe a really skilled DT queen would be amazing. My experience with the ‘amateurs’ was meh. None of them ever got the last inch in.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.