Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Which city is the poorest:)

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What city is d poorest city in 2006 I heard that miami is the poorest city (which comes to know surprise I live there:).What city now claims the tittle.?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The poorest places are in the deep south I believe. Detriot and Flint I always hear bad about too.
 

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It would help if you first defined your terms better. What exactly do you mean by "city" and "poorest?" Is a geographic area or small town a "city" or do you mean only major urban areas? How do you define "poor?" Is is by median incomes, or by a different measure, like the Fed's "poverty line?" There are other factors, too, like unemployment, crime, and welfare recipient stats that closely correlate with poverty.
 

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For the big cities it's by far Detroit.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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not sure why a "what's the poorest city" question prompts people to start reeling off American cities. There's other countries in the world yer know, and there's no way an American city holds that title

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_world's_poorest_city

apparently :)
 

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shaunuk said:
not sure why a "what's the poorest city" question prompts people to start reeling off American cities. There's other countries in the world yer know, and there's no way an American city holds that title

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_world's_poorest_city

apparently :)
I'm surprised it was Potosi, Bolivia. I thought it would be some place in Haiti.
 

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shaunuk said:
not sure why a "what's the poorest city" question prompts people to start reeling off American cities. There's other countries in the world yer know, and there's no way an American city holds that title

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_world's_poorest_city

apparently :)
People like me just assumed that because the original post mentioned Miami was the poorest city in 2006, and I doubt Miami was any poorer than any of the other cities outside of America.
 

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yeah fair enough, thought you meant the whole world cause there's a lot of nationalities on here :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't know where you found Miami at #1 but it's been Detroit or Cleveland the past 3-4 years. Miami was #5 in 2006, but is also the 3rd most expensive to live in so it depends on what statistics people use. But the US Census defines 'poorest' as the highest percentage of people living below the poverty line. And Detroit wins that by a landslide at 33.8%. Cleveland is 2nd at 29.5%.

But for what it's worth, Miami is #1 in road rage, #1 worst to be a sports fan, and #1 worst real estate market.

Detroit is #1 in violent crime, #2 in unemployment, #1 worst for raising kids, #1 angriest, #1 worst to own a dog, #1 worst for sleep, #1 worst high school graduation rate, #1 most expensive to own a car, and #1 in STD rates.

I'm sure there's a lot of other bad stuff in Miami but it was a lot harder to find than Detroit haha.
 
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