"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which city is the poorest:)

e-lie

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What city is d poorest city in 2006 I heard that miami is the poorest city (which comes to know surprise I live there:).What city now claims the tittle.?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The poorest places are in the deep south I believe. Detriot and Flint I always hear bad about too.
 

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It would help if you first defined your terms better. What exactly do you mean by "city" and "poorest?" Is a geographic area or small town a "city" or do you mean only major urban areas? How do you define "poor?" Is is by median incomes, or by a different measure, like the Fed's "poverty line?" There are other factors, too, like unemployment, crime, and welfare recipient stats that closely correlate with poverty.
 

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For the big cities it's by far Detroit.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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not sure why a "what's the poorest city" question prompts people to start reeling off American cities. There's other countries in the world yer know, and there's no way an American city holds that title

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_world's_poorest_city

apparently :)
 

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shaunuk said:
not sure why a "what's the poorest city" question prompts people to start reeling off American cities. There's other countries in the world yer know, and there's no way an American city holds that title

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_world's_poorest_city

apparently :)
I'm surprised it was Potosi, Bolivia. I thought it would be some place in Haiti.
 

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shaunuk said:
not sure why a "what's the poorest city" question prompts people to start reeling off American cities. There's other countries in the world yer know, and there's no way an American city holds that title

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_world's_poorest_city

apparently :)
People like me just assumed that because the original post mentioned Miami was the poorest city in 2006, and I doubt Miami was any poorer than any of the other cities outside of America.
 

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yeah fair enough, thought you meant the whole world cause there's a lot of nationalities on here :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't know where you found Miami at #1 but it's been Detroit or Cleveland the past 3-4 years. Miami was #5 in 2006, but is also the 3rd most expensive to live in so it depends on what statistics people use. But the US Census defines 'poorest' as the highest percentage of people living below the poverty line. And Detroit wins that by a landslide at 33.8%. Cleveland is 2nd at 29.5%.

But for what it's worth, Miami is #1 in road rage, #1 worst to be a sports fan, and #1 worst real estate market.

Detroit is #1 in violent crime, #2 in unemployment, #1 worst for raising kids, #1 angriest, #1 worst to own a dog, #1 worst for sleep, #1 worst high school graduation rate, #1 most expensive to own a car, and #1 in STD rates.

I'm sure there's a lot of other bad stuff in Miami but it was a lot harder to find than Detroit haha.
 
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