Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Honestly, learn by experience first and foremost. A good ratio is 3:1. For every hour you spend reading or surfing pickup forums, you should have 3 hours face-to-face with various women. The only time you should be looking at material is when you're troubleshooting issues you ran into when you were actually interacting with real live women.Miladius said:Hi I want to become good at pick up which book is good to read?
Well, read it still. Why sell yourself short? Learn the inner game from one author, the outer game from another. Most times when one's inner game is straight they become a natural who doesn't need outer game tricks to get girls. The bottom line in Pook's book is when you become a successful man in almost every sense (which starts with the inner you) women will be of the same values will be trying to align themselves with you. Some of you guys don't get it.Miladius said:What do you think about Swinggcat and Real World seduction? I don't think its manipulative as some say it is.
Just playful.
I don't like Mysterys method. I have thought about Jugglers method but don't think it works on night clubs because of the method.
I also have thought about reading Pooks book but it doesn't help my OUTER game. Sure I get some of the inner mindsets down but it does not help me. I wish Pook had written an outer game book. Maybe he was a theorist though? I dunno
Nutz said:Honestly, learn by experience first and foremost. A good ratio is 3:1. For every hour you spend reading or surfing pickup forums, you should have 3 hours face-to-face with various women. The only time you should be looking at material is when you're troubleshooting issues you ran into when you were actually interacting with real live women.