"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Whey Protein
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Warboss Alex
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Researchers compared the effect of whey versus lean ham and lactose on 14 type 2 diabetes patients after they ate high glycemic index (GI) breakfasts and lunches on separate days. Not surprisingly, insulin responses were higher in the diabetic patients after eating breakfast (31 percent) and lunch (57 percent) supplemented with whey. Also, the blood glucose response of patients who ate whey fell by more than 20 percent.
How these patients responded to whey is very encouraging, considering some experts believe reducing the presence of glucose in the blood after a meal is a more expedient approach to treating diabetes than lowering fasting blood glucose. Moreover, the way whey affects the activity of insulin in the body led scientists to conclude these proteins may potentially lessen post-meal blood glucose spikes over the day. "
MrFitness880
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Warboss Alex
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Says Mr Mature.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007
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Heizen
Senior Don Juan
You get aids from it. In fact, you have aids now, from talking about it.
Sorry.
MindOverMatter
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lol
tj
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ditto brother.. just remember why these guys are here. Girls wouldn't get near any of these guys so they just convene here and make fun of each other...and start arguments
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Warboss Alex
Master Don Juan
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Who're you trying to convince here?
