Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 20, 2016
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Where should a guy shop for clothes and how should he dress to bang girls in their 20s? What style would work for a tallish white guy in his 20s?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Their gonna have stuff that fits an atheletic body well?Jos A Bank has been my favorite clothing spot for 10 years now. Get a blue blazer plus another with a pattern, and at least 2 pairs of fitted wool slacks. Then buy 4 dress shirts and some ties, and make sure your leather belt and shoes (and ideally watch band) match. Try to find their buy one get TWO free sales. At least buy one get one free. Beware buy one get one half off because prices vary so you buy two items, one for $70, one for $30 and they charge you $85. If you are smart they can charge you $65 instead by charging for the cheaper and half off the more expensive.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I found the mens warehouse makes it easy, but it can be expensive.Bro, you gotta find your own style. I'm cheap af so I go to Kohl's or even Sears sometimes lmao. But that's because I don't like wearing anything over the top. Just simple stuff that makes me look good because I know how to wear it. That's because it's my style. You shouldn't have others tell you what to dress because some things look good on some people, and bad on others. Find your style and.maximize it's potential.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.