Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 20, 2016
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- 752
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- Age
- 33
Where should a guy shop for clothes and how should he dress to bang girls in their 20s? What style would work for a tallish white guy in his 20s?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Their gonna have stuff that fits an atheletic body well?Jos A Bank has been my favorite clothing spot for 10 years now. Get a blue blazer plus another with a pattern, and at least 2 pairs of fitted wool slacks. Then buy 4 dress shirts and some ties, and make sure your leather belt and shoes (and ideally watch band) match. Try to find their buy one get TWO free sales. At least buy one get one free. Beware buy one get one half off because prices vary so you buy two items, one for $70, one for $30 and they charge you $85. If you are smart they can charge you $65 instead by charging for the cheaper and half off the more expensive.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I found the mens warehouse makes it easy, but it can be expensive.Bro, you gotta find your own style. I'm cheap af so I go to Kohl's or even Sears sometimes lmao. But that's because I don't like wearing anything over the top. Just simple stuff that makes me look good because I know how to wear it. That's because it's my style. You shouldn't have others tell you what to dress because some things look good on some people, and bad on others. Find your style and.maximize it's potential.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.