Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 20, 2016
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- Age
- 33
Where should a guy shop for clothes and how should he dress to bang girls in their 20s? What style would work for a tallish white guy in his 20s?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Their gonna have stuff that fits an atheletic body well?Jos A Bank has been my favorite clothing spot for 10 years now. Get a blue blazer plus another with a pattern, and at least 2 pairs of fitted wool slacks. Then buy 4 dress shirts and some ties, and make sure your leather belt and shoes (and ideally watch band) match. Try to find their buy one get TWO free sales. At least buy one get one free. Beware buy one get one half off because prices vary so you buy two items, one for $70, one for $30 and they charge you $85. If you are smart they can charge you $65 instead by charging for the cheaper and half off the more expensive.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I found the mens warehouse makes it easy, but it can be expensive.Bro, you gotta find your own style. I'm cheap af so I go to Kohl's or even Sears sometimes lmao. But that's because I don't like wearing anything over the top. Just simple stuff that makes me look good because I know how to wear it. That's because it's my style. You shouldn't have others tell you what to dress because some things look good on some people, and bad on others. Find your style and.maximize it's potential.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.