Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 20, 2016
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Where should a guy shop for clothes and how should he dress to bang girls in their 20s? What style would work for a tallish white guy in his 20s?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Their gonna have stuff that fits an atheletic body well?Jos A Bank has been my favorite clothing spot for 10 years now. Get a blue blazer plus another with a pattern, and at least 2 pairs of fitted wool slacks. Then buy 4 dress shirts and some ties, and make sure your leather belt and shoes (and ideally watch band) match. Try to find their buy one get TWO free sales. At least buy one get one free. Beware buy one get one half off because prices vary so you buy two items, one for $70, one for $30 and they charge you $85. If you are smart they can charge you $65 instead by charging for the cheaper and half off the more expensive.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I found the mens warehouse makes it easy, but it can be expensive.Bro, you gotta find your own style. I'm cheap af so I go to Kohl's or even Sears sometimes lmao. But that's because I don't like wearing anything over the top. Just simple stuff that makes me look good because I know how to wear it. That's because it's my style. You shouldn't have others tell you what to dress because some things look good on some people, and bad on others. Find your style and.maximize it's potential.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.