Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 20, 2016
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- Age
- 33
Where should a guy shop for clothes and how should he dress to bang girls in their 20s? What style would work for a tallish white guy in his 20s?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Their gonna have stuff that fits an atheletic body well?Jos A Bank has been my favorite clothing spot for 10 years now. Get a blue blazer plus another with a pattern, and at least 2 pairs of fitted wool slacks. Then buy 4 dress shirts and some ties, and make sure your leather belt and shoes (and ideally watch band) match. Try to find their buy one get TWO free sales. At least buy one get one free. Beware buy one get one half off because prices vary so you buy two items, one for $70, one for $30 and they charge you $85. If you are smart they can charge you $65 instead by charging for the cheaper and half off the more expensive.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I found the mens warehouse makes it easy, but it can be expensive.Bro, you gotta find your own style. I'm cheap af so I go to Kohl's or even Sears sometimes lmao. But that's because I don't like wearing anything over the top. Just simple stuff that makes me look good because I know how to wear it. That's because it's my style. You shouldn't have others tell you what to dress because some things look good on some people, and bad on others. Find your style and.maximize it's potential.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.