"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where to meet women, constant rejection is ****ing with my head

ubercat

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Geez if I went Monk my girlfriend could be a little bit disappointed she likes the little Uber. No my own way as in back my own opinion until I see evidence to the contrary
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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I see, so I should go to yoga classes instead of alpine skiing simply because there are more women who do the former? THIS is beta behavior!
Yoga is a good tuneup for your atheletic body. One or two sessions a week makes a difference.
 

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I see, so I should go to yoga classes instead of alpine skiing simply because there are more women who do the former? THIS is beta behavior!
Can't meet women if there are no women to meet
 
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