"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where to meet women, constant rejection is ****ing with my head

ubercat

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Geez if I went Monk my girlfriend could be a little bit disappointed she likes the little Uber. No my own way as in back my own opinion until I see evidence to the contrary
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I see, so I should go to yoga classes instead of alpine skiing simply because there are more women who do the former? THIS is beta behavior!
Yoga is a good tuneup for your atheletic body. One or two sessions a week makes a difference.
 

devilkingx2

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I see, so I should go to yoga classes instead of alpine skiing simply because there are more women who do the former? THIS is beta behavior!
Can't meet women if there are no women to meet
 
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