"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where to meet wingmen?

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I just moved to a new city where I know essentially no one. I'm looking for wings to go out with but have no idea where to procure them.

Some ideas I've had:

Meetup groups
Bumble friendship
Going out by myself and interacting with others

FWIW I'm 32 so a little old for the nightclub scene (I'll be lying about my age in any case)?

Any ideas? Want to switch up the monotony of the online grind
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No male coworker who is cool enough to invite to get a beer?
Take a class, or volunteer somewhere. Great way to meet people.
 
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Snag87 said:
Most of the guys at my job are middle aged and married
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If it were me my next bet would be gym. Walk up to guys who are in pretty good shape and ask to join there workout for the day. Most people are thrilled to have a workout partner.
 
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