"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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t510

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Any advice on best places to meet girls? I'm very busy with school / work. Upper 20's. I go to about 3 places - work, gym, home to study... Not cool
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In my opinion, the best of the best are:

-Book stores (Intelligent women)
-World Market type stores (Cultured, worldly women)
-Target (I have the best luck here.. packed to the brim with hotties)
-Farmer's Market (More hippie gardening girls if anything, but lots of girls)
-The Mall (Shopping... need I say more?)
-University Campus (Even if you're done with schooling, go scope it out)
-The Park (At least half the time I find a lady here)
-Bars (If you aren't afraid of gyrating on the dance floor, you're golden)

That's the tip of the ice berg, just taking a bike ride anywhere can net you a wandering finey. Every place in your town and surrounding area has a certain average amount of women per hour wandering through... test the waters and find the place that's consistently worthwhile.
 

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Try some classes? Like cooking, art, dance, etc. Every time I go, there's only like one or a few guys. It's kind of frustrating.
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Sign up for a Salsa dancing class. Plenty of women there.
^^Yeah exactly. Or yoga. Most guys won't go near either because it's girlyyy and they're manly men lol. But so what?
 

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Reading some of the posts on here, its looks like Facebook is the place to go to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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