"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Where to meet girls

t510

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Any advice on best places to meet girls? I'm very busy with school / work. Upper 20's. I go to about 3 places - work, gym, home to study... Not cool
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wraithe

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In my opinion, the best of the best are:

-Book stores (Intelligent women)
-World Market type stores (Cultured, worldly women)
-Target (I have the best luck here.. packed to the brim with hotties)
-Farmer's Market (More hippie gardening girls if anything, but lots of girls)
-The Mall (Shopping... need I say more?)
-University Campus (Even if you're done with schooling, go scope it out)
-The Park (At least half the time I find a lady here)
-Bars (If you aren't afraid of gyrating on the dance floor, you're golden)

That's the tip of the ice berg, just taking a bike ride anywhere can net you a wandering finey. Every place in your town and surrounding area has a certain average amount of women per hour wandering through... test the waters and find the place that's consistently worthwhile.
 

annabanana19

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Try some classes? Like cooking, art, dance, etc. Every time I go, there's only like one or a few guys. It's kind of frustrating.
 

annabanana19

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Sign up for a Salsa dancing class. Plenty of women there.
^^Yeah exactly. Or yoga. Most guys won't go near either because it's girlyyy and they're manly men lol. But so what?
 

mangotot

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Reading some of the posts on here, its looks like Facebook is the place to go to.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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