"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where to meet girls

t510

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Any advice on best places to meet girls? I'm very busy with school / work. Upper 20's. I go to about 3 places - work, gym, home to study... Not cool
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wraithe

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In my opinion, the best of the best are:

-Book stores (Intelligent women)
-World Market type stores (Cultured, worldly women)
-Target (I have the best luck here.. packed to the brim with hotties)
-Farmer's Market (More hippie gardening girls if anything, but lots of girls)
-The Mall (Shopping... need I say more?)
-University Campus (Even if you're done with schooling, go scope it out)
-The Park (At least half the time I find a lady here)
-Bars (If you aren't afraid of gyrating on the dance floor, you're golden)

That's the tip of the ice berg, just taking a bike ride anywhere can net you a wandering finey. Every place in your town and surrounding area has a certain average amount of women per hour wandering through... test the waters and find the place that's consistently worthwhile.
 

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Try some classes? Like cooking, art, dance, etc. Every time I go, there's only like one or a few guys. It's kind of frustrating.
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Sign up for a Salsa dancing class. Plenty of women there.
^^Yeah exactly. Or yoga. Most guys won't go near either because it's girlyyy and they're manly men lol. But so what?
 

mangotot

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Reading some of the posts on here, its looks like Facebook is the place to go to.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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