"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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t510

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Any advice on best places to meet girls? I'm very busy with school / work. Upper 20's. I go to about 3 places - work, gym, home to study... Not cool
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In my opinion, the best of the best are:

-Book stores (Intelligent women)
-World Market type stores (Cultured, worldly women)
-Target (I have the best luck here.. packed to the brim with hotties)
-Farmer's Market (More hippie gardening girls if anything, but lots of girls)
-The Mall (Shopping... need I say more?)
-University Campus (Even if you're done with schooling, go scope it out)
-The Park (At least half the time I find a lady here)
-Bars (If you aren't afraid of gyrating on the dance floor, you're golden)

That's the tip of the ice berg, just taking a bike ride anywhere can net you a wandering finey. Every place in your town and surrounding area has a certain average amount of women per hour wandering through... test the waters and find the place that's consistently worthwhile.
 

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Try some classes? Like cooking, art, dance, etc. Every time I go, there's only like one or a few guys. It's kind of frustrating.
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Sign up for a Salsa dancing class. Plenty of women there.
^^Yeah exactly. Or yoga. Most guys won't go near either because it's girlyyy and they're manly men lol. But so what?
 

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Reading some of the posts on here, its looks like Facebook is the place to go to.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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