Where To Meat Poeple (not only women )

[evan12]

I want a place that I can go and find poeple to socialize with them , why it is so hard in north America to find such places , in other countries there are cafes which strangers talk with each others even if they didnt meet before .
here I is very hard start conversation with strangers unless you have very interesting subjects .
any suggested places ?

 

[JumpOff]

How old are you?

 

[TRSX]

Probably should learn to spell first.

Bazingggg. jk bro.

Any city, any place anywhere. Just gotta approach.

 

[Mike32ct]

I can understand the OP's frustration. There really aren't any places where people just want to talk and meet each other, as opposed to staying in their cliques/groups.

If such a place existed and had women, it would turn to a sausage fest overnight anyway.

I've only temporarily experienced a friendly chatty environment while on vacation. In real life, back home, it doesn't really happen.

Generally it works like this...

1. Are you in her clique or at least a friend of a clique member? If yes, she will talk to you.

2. If you are not connected, but she finds you hot (or rich or high status, blah blah blah broken record) she will talk to you.

Nobody else need apply.

I'm all for cold approaching but a thick skin is a must.

 

[Deep Dish]

Where To Meat Poeple

The meat market. Just kidding. I couldn’t resist.

If your interest is meeting people in general, some of the most fascinating conversations I’ve had were with fellow patrons while sitting up at the bar in restaurants. Of course, you can’t just sit there quietly and expect people to chat you up, because that will only occasionally happen. You need to be proactive.

 

[omega05]

you want to MEAT men and women? (not that there's anything wrong with that?

 

[Who Dares Win]

At the gym, you can get to know some meathead and go all togheter at the restaurant for some steak, also those guido type guys are the best wingmen in case you go to the club hunting for fresh chicks or cougars, just make sure to dont burn any grill (I mean girl) while looking for fresh meat.

 

[evan12]

sorry for my incorrect spelling obviously I meant "meet"

If your interest is meeting people in general, some of the most fascinating conversations I’ve had were with fellow patrons while sitting up at the bar in restaurants.

yes in fact , I want my social skills to go up , I need to talk with deffirent poeple not only women , but the thing is no place when you can talk with , I tried a couple of times in book store , but the usually they just try to end the conversation as soon as (men and women )
I tried bar , but poeple come with their friends and they dont welcome strangers

I am 29 bty

 

[FairShake]

If you're having trouble with social skills I think bars are not the place to go. People are there to have fun, not be a practice dummy for someone to figure out how to talk with.

I'd say start with the people at work or school first. Start with new friends of friends. Conversations are more organic with these people since you have more to talk about and reasons to talk to people. Simply starting a conversation with a stranger for no reason is hit-or-miss. Alot of people don't want to be bothered and they don't begin organically.

Once you have better skills you can deduce when you should and when you shouldn't talk to strangers.

 

[omega05]

Why not get some liquor in you at the bar and talk up a storm?

 

[BPH]

Meat people in a slaughterhouse, make sure it's legal though

 

[TonyBaloney]

All you guys are real mickey takers

Seriously OP, look at meetup.com, its got lots of cool social events. All individuals meeting up (male and female) looking to make connections with like minded folk; the perfect way to make friends in a non hassle evironment. Try a few of these and youll hit the right note.

All the best,

Tony

 

[SoSuave666]

Meat people at the Butcher!!!!!!!!!!

Couldn't resist.