"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Where to get her on 2nd date

sosousage

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Aight I quite often rip my relationships with women after first date.

Its like first date is ok but then contact cuts or I text her something I shouldnt text her.


So I have two chicks that I was recently on FIRST dates with. One even drove me back to my house lol with her car.

Cute.

I tried to kiss her in the end thankfully for the trip. While I grabbed her waist (in the car) but she moved her face (now I am not sure if it was to avoid kiss or if she just wanted to look at me). so I kissed her on the cheeks.


Should I invite her home? or somewhere else
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Little of both do a 2 bar bounce somewhere near to you home ideally somewhere with live entertainment. I always seem to bat 50/50 with second dates as well. I think it's a bit different in my case as I'm naturally good at getting a wide variety of girls out on a date. Which ups your throughput but lowers your conversion rate. Anyway that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it for now :rolleyes:

When I have scored easily this involved multiple venues bit of social proof plenty of easy conversation starters in the environment. And as my old boxing coach said don't push too hard for the knockout it will come.


It also helps if you've got something cool or fun at your place. Eg the latest PlayStation or your good at making ****tails or you have a cheap ass art collection whatever I'm sure GQ and maxim's have a good list. You really should have something cool at your place anyway for your own self amusement. Self amusement is one of the most important inner game attributes

And honestly try and become a regular at a couple of places near you it makes life so much easier.

It says that you're a master DJ. But you did ask and it never hurts to revisit the basics. The classics are classics for a reason.
 
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Little of both do a 2 bar bounce somewhere near to you home ideally somewhere with live entertainment. I always seem to bat 50/50 with second dates as well. I think it's a bit different in my case as I'm naturally good at getting a wide variety of girls out on a date. Which ups your throughput but lowers your conversion rate. Anyway that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it for now :rolleyes:

When I have scored easily this involved multiple venues bit of social proof plenty of easy conversation starters in the environment. And as my old boxing coach said don't push too hard for the knockout it will come.


It also helps if you've got something cool or fun at your place. Eg the latest PlayStation or your good at making ****tails or you have a cheap ass art collection whatever I'm sure GQ and maxim's have a good list. You really should have something cool at your place anyway for your own self amusement. Self amusement is one of the most important inner game attributes

And honestly try and become a regular at a couple of places near you it makes life so much easier.

It says that you're a master DJ. But you did ask and it never hurts to revisit the basics. The classics are classics for a reason.
Oh you checked my profile! anyway I just realised theres a word c0ck in c0cktail .


Ill take your advice. thanks
 
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